QUESTIONS ANSWERED!

  • ANGEL_OF_DARKNESS
    19 years ago

    If anyone needs 2 ask me n-e questions about.. Cutting, depression, family troubles, or any kind of issues, dont hesitate 2 ask. cus im always here 4 anyone. i realy love to help people with there problems. so please ask me anything and il answer or help u straight away.. Lyndi Xx

  • ANGEL_OF_DARKNESS
    19 years ago

    come on, surely someone has a question??!

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    no. not really.
    -A

  • ANGEL_OF_DARKNESS
    19 years ago

    ok then.

  • *HauntedByMemories*
    19 years ago

    ...I feel like my cousin(who has recently been diagnosed with Bypolar) is ripping our family apart... I hate myself even more for saying that...

  • *HauntedByMemories*
    19 years ago

    hell no... I'm not talking to her. Obviously you've never delt with a bypolar patient. They flip or the tiniest things, well she does. Its complicated... and I'm only 13, and I've got the experience to give good advice. possibly more then you do, so I wouldn't say that about lyndi

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    Excuse me....are you a psychologist or any other type of trained professional?

  • *HauntedByMemories*
    19 years ago

    I know... but are you saying because I'm thriteen I cant give advice on things that normally only happen to people older than me? thats just stupid, because I can give good advice, as I'm sure lyndi could...

    And I'm sure you've delt with mood swings, everyone has... but its different from a bypolar patient, especially when its family

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    If you're 13 you can't give me good advice. Sorry, try again.

  • *HauntedByMemories*
    19 years ago

    Natalie, dont judge me. you've never asked me for advice so you cant say that I wouldn't be able to.

    Nada, I've gone to hell and back more then once and had to grow up very fast. People dont call me in the middle of the night, but I do have to deal with a whole family , school, work, babysitting, dance, cadets, everything all 24/7...

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    Haunted - I am NOT judging you, simply telling you that I KNOW you could NOT give me advice. Deal with it and move on silly. I don't want to read all the moaning and whinning. Shut up. You could NOT give me advice or help me in any way.

  • *HauntedByMemories*
    19 years ago

    Natalie, I cant help you cuz you dont want help... your choice

    Nada, thats sad and touching. I hope the gurl makes it through. But what you said about about the cutters was rude and ignorant. I'm sorry but you had to know that. I dont have a life treatning disease, but I do deal with alot and dont cut. I know of people I've very close to who could die any second, I'm expected to be the good kid in the family and get good grades, I have to be a part of everything, and again, much more... I'm not saying I'm as tough as her, but both you and natalie are under-estamating me and I dont like it

  • *HauntedByMemories*
    19 years ago

    maybe it was the truth.... but sometimes it takes the bigger person to keep thier mouth shut so that they dont hurt someone else with the truth... sometimes its better to shut your mouth and just say "I love you" rather then putting them down for a choise they made.

    I dont cut, but I'll admitt Ive been close. you are also going by only one girl that is strong, well there are other people out there who maybe aren't quite as stong.

    but dont underestamate people because of thier age, its just wrong

  • *HauntedByMemories*
    19 years ago

    corection, I said I WAS close. Do not tell me I am weak cuz you dont know me! I'm stronger then most my age soo dont make assumptions like that!

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    Then you shouldn't ASSUME that you are stronger than most your age. You don't KNOW that. Don't make such an assumption. You said you couldn't help me because I don't want help....it's not about what I want but more about what I need. I DON'T NEED help but if I did it would NOT be you who I'd turn to. I would ask for help from someone close or a trained professional as should all these rejects on here.

  • chelle
    19 years ago

    Nada you are only 19...are you any kind of trained professional ...i DIDN'T think so.... you have basically turned this entire post into a democracy about how you are right...news flash!!! YOUR NOT...what the hell would you know about how a 13 year old feels about having a family member who is bipolar (my guess is you wouldn't)...AND DONT assume that she isn't stronger than most her her age...get a life...and stop trying to be right all the time about other peoples!!!!!!!

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    Oh Michelle you poor thing. How do you know who doesn't know what it's like to be 13 and deal with such situations...you don't so shut up. And anyone can assume that she is NOT stronger than most her age being that there are SO many young teens her age who have to face LOTS of different things, poverty, abuse, molestation....just so many different situations.

  • Amanda Bee
    19 years ago

    Hey Nada...you know what. I lived in Egypt for a year...

    Did not like it! Nope.

  • chelle
    19 years ago

    Nada...I am not bashing you, your country, or anything/anyone else for that matter. It just seems like everything that you have to say is ALWAYS negative. You think that i don't know what it is like to be 13 and have a lot to worry about?!? you don't even know my life story. I don't even know any of you and i am not out to get people to hate me...you are the only one who has the power to change where you live (so don't blame me) and i didn't elect your president or mine for that matter (who by the way IS HORRIBLE *in my opinion*) so dont go blaming me for that either....well i hope that you all can forgive me for insulting you if that is what i have done...God Bless

  • *HauntedByMemories*
    19 years ago

    "some people I'll be very nice too, others I'll bash, not that I enjoy it but that's what is needed"
    Nada, that is wrong on SO many levels. Nobody ever needs to be bashed or "put down"!! no matter what they did. So stop bashing me and evryone else. if you dont have something nice and encouragin to say, dont say anything at all!!

    Thank you Michelle!

  • *HauntedByMemories*
    19 years ago

    britney, I didn't mean encourage people to cut, I meant encourage people to STOP cutting.... omg just for it. this whole thing is completly pointless. this whole post was made for people who are feeling a little down and would like some honest help or advice. And its people like you and nada and whoever else that bashes people who ruin it!!!... if you dont want to help people, then just fuck off. This whole forum is for people who want help, hence "depression"!! if you dont like cutters or helping, then stay the fuck out!!

  • *HauntedByMemories*
    19 years ago

    I dont care, its wrong... regardless if you are TRYING to help, it still hurts

  • *HauntedByMemories*
    19 years ago

    I know, I dont like that either... but if you say something rude or hurtful it puts scars on thier heart, that just dont fade after any amount of years... I dont know what was said that hurt me specifically, it was just everything. its rude to bash anyone for any reason what so ever!!... I know you've been a cutter before, well I haven't. But does it hurt more then cutting?... I dont know. I've never cut, I've been close, but that doesn't mean I'm weak... thats what made me mad was when Natalie and Nada said I was weak and assumed I couldn't help anyone. thats rediculious because I help alot.

  • Ari
    19 years ago

    Good lord. When I was 13 I was trying to get through seventh grade without dying! maybe I should leave... lol

  • chelle
    19 years ago

    just a simple question...do any of you realize what this has been turned into?!? if a 13 year old asked robyn for advice then her advice should be justly considered but if she asks you, brittany being almost 18, (as am I -by the way tho, i still ask my 13 yr. old sister for advice!) or Nada or Nat. for advice dont you think that you should give so from a 13 year olds point of view...y'all have been there...you knew what it was like...she isnt asking to be put down she is just trying to connect with somebody who can understand her and the way you talk to her doesn't seem like you do so...she isnt asking u t tell her what to think (u dont kno) or how she should feel (u dont kno)...you only kno what you thought or you felt when you were her age...everyone is different...p.s. learning from life experiences probably means jack crap ...she hasnt lived as long as you or i have...and hasnt had all of the same life experiences...i am not trying to sound like a bitch but it just seems like all you want to do is to consciencly rip her apart...by the way just b/c people wrote that you helped them doesnt mean anything either (they could be lying)...maybe you have but there is also the possiblity that some of them have lied...Night y'all

  • *HauntedByMemories*
    19 years ago

    Thank you Michelle!!!!!!!

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    I can't even tell you all how many people hated us but after a while began to love us. I have made quite a few internet buddies through this part of the website. There's just a couple that I can't get through to.

  • chelle
    19 years ago

    i am not doubting that many people have changed their opinions about you and are now some of your closest internet buddies...but understand that you arent their mother...it isnt your responsibility to get through to them...i have no doubt that you are a good person...but sometimes you just have to learn to watch what you say or how you say it...

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    I'm not their mother? If someone takes the time to talk to me and listen to what I say they will see where I am coming from and understand me. Who knows, maybe I'll make them stop to think about what they are doing. You don't have to be someone's mother to do that. I tell people how I feel, period. It's not a responsibility, it's just what I do. I always will, I will never change, thus you must deal with it.

    Next.....

  • chelle
    19 years ago

    well good for you...

    i dont need to take your crap and neither does ne1 else...if want to think that you are always right and that people should take your advice then fine...its one thing to share your opinion w/ someone but its as completly other thing to tell someone what they should think or what their opinion should be...

    by the sound of it you seem like the kind of person who always gets their way...i feel bad for you...whats gonna happen when the real world bites you in the ass and you stop getting your way all the time?!?

    and maybe you do stop people from making the wrong decision...i never said you didnt...but maybe you should stop telling people what to do all the time and for once just say that they are in your prayers or something or that you hope they choose to do what their heart is telling them to do...there isn't always a resolution to something...

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    If you read further Michelle you will see that I PRAISE people who say they stopped cutting or doing something that incredibly stupid. I support people who say the want to change and do right. I NEVER tell people what to think or believe. NEVER. I NEVER try to change peoples opinions either. I just simply give my opinions and my beliefs just as everyone else. That is my right....and I will use it the fullest.

    I like your bit about the real world biting me in the ass. I AM IN THE REAL WORLD and loving it! There is no need for you to feel sorry for me. I am a grown woman and I can definitely handle myself, I don't need your pitty.

    When I personally have experienced something I will tell my story and the out come and maybe give a suggestion....that is MY suggestion, what worked for me. I can do that since they asked but that does NOT mean I am trying to change anyone.

  • chelle
    19 years ago

    trust me hun...i DEFINITLY DO NOT pitty you!!!!

    ok...so you are giving your suggestions...heres the bottom line...you sound like a bitch when you do ...have a good day!

    btw...in one of your threads you made the comment that you love being rude to people...god your a bitch...o well i dont have to know you so the only persons i feel sorry for are those who do have to know you...

    "Next..."

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    Michelle just shut up. You are a fucking idiot. Really. I am a bitch. Big deal, I've been called worse. Deal with it and move on dumb ass. And the people who KNOW me LOVE me. Nice try, but try again twit.

    Carry on...

  • chelle
    19 years ago

    sounds like i hit a nerve.......................................................................................

    btw...i am not offended by anything you have said about me cuz i DO NOT care what other people think about me...oh and the word twit went out back when i was in like...FIFTH GRADE!!!!!

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    Actually you didn't hit a nerve. You can't 'get to me.' I am not a mindless little teeny bopper who takes the internet to heart. Trust me, I am a-okay. The word twit went out when you were in 5th grade? Really. That's interesting news to me. Last time I checked it was still in the dictionary. If you didn't care what people thought then why are you in here trying to prove a point and defending something you don't care about? You are a complete moron. There aren't enough words in this world to describe how dumb you are.

  • ANGEL_OF_DARKNESS
    19 years ago

    okay... i was only trying to help ppl.
    and i can give good advice bcus ive been bought up with cutting and depression around me my whole life. and ive been giving good advice 2 ppl 4 years. just cus im 14 dont mean i cant give gud advice.. i only try and help people. the ppl who i cant help are the ppl that wont let me help them. it looks like ive made things worse with you all argueing and stuff..... but i just want you all 2 know,,, that i was only trying to HELP ppl.......

  • chelle
    19 years ago

    lyndi...you have nothing to be sorry for...just b/c your 14 doesnt mean you cant give advice...the argument wasnt over you...if was over how Nada and Nat. always come off as bitches (well at least seem too)...dont worry the argument is over cuz i am done even trying to get my point across to either of them (o well guess somepeople can only help/not be helped)...just keep writing...offering advice to anyone who needs it...and i will see you over the rainbow...xox chelle

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    I don't need to be helped. I don't slice and dice myself up. Sorry. Next.

    You're 14....you've been through a lot....AND? At 14 I had been through some unimaginable shit too. But I didn't go around trying to 'help' people. My only -advice- to you would be to PAY ATTENTION IN SCHOOL. You write worse than my 6 year old niece.

  • ANGEL_OF_DARKNESS
    19 years ago

    i think u should just shut ya mouth. you think your so hardcore. but i can just say that you aint. you sound so immature so why dont u just get off my post. and go write to sum1 who gives a shit about what u have to say.......... gaybo.