ADVICE SEEKER

He wants you to "blow him?" I'm just going to guess what that means. You're 11 years old!!! The worst thing of all is that you said you would....again, you're ONLY 11.....and you're worried about you losing the chance to be with him! YOU'RE ELEVEN YEARS OLD!!

This is making me ill....I must go now before I say something cruel and unusual....

HAHAHAHAHAHA Oh my goodness, that hurt my insides.

Oh My God. That's all I have to say. You're 11. wow. You're so stupid for even thinking about it. You would be known as a hussy...at 11 now thats an early age! Trust me!

If you think that he's going to NOT like you if you do it....and not like you if you do...then why bother? Just move on!!! You're 11!!!! You shouldn't even know what that means!!

You're 11 years old I have a son who is 11 also. If I found out he was asking some girl to blow him I would come unglued. I don't think he really understands what that even means. Last year I found a letter that a girl had written him saying he totally ruined her life by not liking her and if he told anyone she would cut off his balls into tiny pieces. I thought that was bad and couldn't believe her language for someone so young. Man what's a matter with you even thinking about it at 11! If you want to be known as a whore at 11 or eventually end up with some STD that is totally up to you.

*Opens mouth but no words exit* I'm speechless, well, least i can say is No, No, NO, and jesus christ GOD NO! Sorry for the excessive swearing, but c'mon, she's 11 yrs old and thinking about that kinda stuff!! I think she really needs parental help which has not been given in my opinion.

I have a little sister who's 11. If I EVER found out she was going to blow a guy, I would lock her in the basement and never ever let her out. Don't do this... you're worried about his respect for you! What about your parents' respect for you? think about that...

Well my advice is if you decide you are gonna do it then don't let him get it in the back of your throut because then it will taste like sh*t. & if your gonna lose either way then do what you want because if your doing this as just a favor then your not getting anything out of it so if your doing it for fun then there is nothing wrong with having a lil fun, just remember about safe sex and the back of the throut trick. Have Fun!

Why are you encouraging an 11 year old girl. It's not about having a "lil fun". I see you're 13 and this is the kind of behavior you think is okay for an 11 year old. It sound like you have already been having what you refer to as having a lil fun. This is so pathetic. Do you not have any respect for yourself at all? What an ignorant statement! "Have Fun" well I hope she has enough respect for herself to see how wrong this is.

or 11... girl im 15 and haven't even done that with a guy. come on wait if he doens't like you cuz you wont "blow him" thats sad. have some respect for your body and yourself. DO NOT DO SOMETHNIG YOU DON'T WANT TO DO. and if you do u know the gusy is going ot go asround telling everyone and you'll be known as a "Whore" you don't want the Name on yourself @ the age of 11. well Good luck and i hope you make the right decsion.

That is just wrong in so many ways...I agree with almost everyone on this forum...except the chick that said go for it!

What the hell your eleven years old.. DON NOT BLOW HIM i dont care if he stops liking you becuase im sorry to fill u in but he never did like you its the wonderful thing called he wants to use you.. dont start off this young because by the time your like 14 youll HATE urself

Look the key words in what I said was IF she was going to then that was fine she said she would so it might as well taste good and if she doesn't then that's fine too. is he trying to use her yes does she want to she said she would so I am not encouraging her but I am not discouraging her because then most of the advice will just go through one ear then out the other. is she young yes and no it all depends on the person's personality to me age is just a number it isn't the maturity level she maybe very smart and mature girl we don't know that but on the other hand she may not but again we don't know. yes I maybe 13 but people often mistake me for 17 and they say I act like I am 16 or 17 and to some people that's a blessing and a curse and it is. they tell me I am wise beyond my years but don't get me wrong I was once upon a time an innocent daddy's little girl. But when it comes down to it she will do whatever the h*ll she wants.
~Ariana Aka Nanies~