if u love somebody!! (Help)

I know that I would.

Even if that meant I had to take a bullet for them.

In most cases yes, but... there are times when you have to draw the line. Say the one you loves wants you to do something with another person in which you do not wanna do. Would you jeopradize your relationship by doing something your partner wants?There are many things where you would, but in my opinion you have to draw the line depending on what it is. And yes I would die for my true love, but only for my true love.

most people say they could but me, i say it depends because i don't want to say yes and not mean it. I do love somebody now and i would do almost anything for them but there is a limit. For me atleast. i don't know if that is selfish or not but its the truth.

i would do anything if i had a true love

Yeah I would. Everything except let him go. I can't seem to do that even though I know were over.

I was contemplating this the other day...

One thing i'd never do is do something which lead to harm for her, like when she asks me to bring her blades to harm herself with later that day - I hate to see her hurt...

Dependant on how serious she is, or if it means to stay with her - I'd do pretty much anything, and it scares me.

I would lose all my friends for her, i'd die to protect her (Yes, ironic typical idiotic statement which you read and think 'only on paper'), but i'd never do something to harm her, or to lose her (though i'd give her up if that is what she wanted...she can do better than i)

Though don't treat it as a way to define how much you love a person, i find it weak to betray your own morals for somebody you love out of fear, but then i am a weak person.

OK I think I have found every girls perfect boyfriend in you Sean/ Your girlfriend is a really lucky girl, and from what you've just said, I'm not sure she can do better. :)

It's not out of the ordinary, or atleast shouldn't be out of the ordinary for a guy to actually care for his girlfriend.

Also, as much as i apreicate the compliment - i do not take them very well as i find it hard to accept i am anything of value, and i don't like being given them because it feels like i was fishing for them in the first place.

In relation to a comment made above about killing yourself if a breakup happend, or cutting etc....i've never understood that myself, i can understand why people feel the need too, but not why they'd put that obligation and pressure on there partner...and what's worse is when they say it not knowing the implication of it, or worse...actually knowing and using it as a way to stay in a relationship where the other wants to leave.

Idiotic and i guess childish in some respects, selfish and self-serving.

No offense to anybody here though; maybe i'm a tad to open with thoughts.

"Also, as much as i apreicate the compliment - i do not take them very well as i find it hard to accept i am anything of value, and i don't like being given them because it feels like i was fishing for them in the first place."

I know exactly what you mean by that. I also do not take compliments well, and do not accept them. I do not feel I have an value either.

without a doubt

"the question is: how much do you want to add? do you want to make you want to make a difference or just be another statistics. by answerig those question (it might seem easy but it's not an easy answer of yes or no) you know how valuable you are and what you should do."

For a while now, around the same time i began to write - I've wanted to help people as much as possible, and go out of my way to make sure i do...

but you cannot mistake intention to help, or to 'add to the world' as you say for being of actual value, and i find it not arrogant as such, but it wouldn't suit me to think that as a person i do have worth.

I'd like to make a difference, and just by existing we all do that.

Self-worth is a tricky thing, because why should you listen to somebody elses opinion or idea about yourself, when you have your own perception of you alot more clearer - afterall, i'm the only person inside my head.

"the question is: how much do you want to add? do you want to make you want to make a difference or just be another statistics. by answerig those question (it might seem easy but it's not an easy answer of yes or no) you know how valuable you are and what you should do."

I want to add as much as I can to the world, things that matter. I want to be a doctor or teacher, to help people.

Yes self-Confidence is a difficult thing. I've had mine put down so many time that I have started to believe the things i have been told. It's unbelievable the amount of people that hate me, but because of them, theres no one that hates me mroe than I hate myself. I would willingly change to to someone else. Just keep my friends, my family, my talents. Just change my looks, my personality maybe.

My confidence when it comes to social settings etc is fine, it's simply my self esteem...being at comfort with myself which i find the trouble with.

It's part of growing up; being a teenager and accepting the changes we are going through i guess, but there are other reasons for me to be so....hateful of myself.

I can't hate many people, so why i dislike myself so much is a worry.

At the moment there's no one I totally hate. There's people I dislike, but I'm the only person I truly hate. There's a reason I hide away from myself and even though I'm apparently a good actress, I don't feel confident within myself. The only time I feel truly happy with myself is when im on stage, or painting/drawing.

I'd Do anything If I TRUELY love him!!

Strangely enough, i know another girl who said just that about the stage...i kind of knew what she meant, but then when i'm on stage singing or performing, i'm too frightend to be happy.

I have been very happy lately, and that is through love - but then that's bad, because that is a very dependant trait i have.

I'm sure this has been posted before.
But yeah, I would do anything for the guy I love. I'm pretty sure most people would.

honestly...i don't know....i guess it depends on how much i really love them....i know that probably sounds really conceited and selfish....but it's true

anything unless it's harmful or if they're just trying to take advantage of me. i'd try not to be too gullible and fall for anything, but hey, if you trust that the person is being truthful in all, and if you really love that person without a doubt, then go for it.. unless it's something bad.

I would never do anything for my boyfriend if it would hurt him. Otherwise I'd do anything, and I mean that. I know words are only words, but I've already had to do one of the hardest things for me ever... let him go. He didn't want to leave me, but I was telling him too if he would be happy with that other girl.. (long story).
Sean- You sound exactly like my boyfriend. He, like you, believes he is worth nothing and I could do better. I just hope you don't tell your girlfriend that because everytime I hear my guy say that I feel like dying... I'm not being overly dramatic, it hurts to see the one you love feel they aren't good enough for you and you can't show them otherwise...
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

Would they let you?

i so would. Even if the person i loved didn't love me back i would cuz maybe theyed see just how much i love them and eventually love me back

Natalie84- good point. if the other person truly loves you too, they wouldn't let you do anything that would hurt you...
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

yes.. if we were in love i would do anything for that person ..im like that, i would take a bullet for a friend.. so just imagine love! lol