what do u do when u find ur soulmate

  • Catty
    19 years ago

    well...i think i have found my soulmate which is the one thing i have wanted since i was little. Now that i have found him...what do i do. I mean i am only 15 so i can't get married or anything. Despite my age i think he is the one. I just don't know where to go from here. Its like when a person realizes all their dreams have come true...what do u do next?

  • Ashley
    19 years ago

    Well, you may have found him. But think about this, do you really really really want to be with this person for the rest of your life. I mean think about college and later in life. Don't make too much out of this guy. You don't know what will happen later on.

    Well if you truly believe it then take your time you still have time to wait if you are going to be with him for the rest of your life. Don't do anything too fast you may push him away. I thought I found mine, I was with him for over a year and one day he just said "I think we should be friends".

    If it is worth waiting for then wait.
    But tell him how you feel, not too much detail don't scare him off! Do remember he is a guy!

    Finish school get a job, be able to support yourself before you get to carried away. You never know what could happen next.

    -Ashley

  • chelle
    19 years ago

    i agree w/ ashley but here is the thing...i think that i have found "the one" as well. the thing that scares me the most about it though is that he was my first real serious boyfriend...i have had others but none like him...he was the first one i said i love you to, and the first one i have ever cried over...the thing that makes it even more special is that he told me he thinks i am his "one" first...(btw:i havent told him yet) i dont want to say it and then not mean it a couple years down the road...i want to experience college life and date other people but right now he is the one i want to be with....well newayz...just thought to share my similar story...sry...

    "If you love someone, let them go...if it's meant to be they will come back." this is prolly the best love advice i have ever been given...i let him go and we are almost back together again (check out my post on love and romance -what do i do?!?)

    Good luck w/ everything and i hope it all works out for you...dont worry it will all work out in the end....xox chelle