Anyone!!! Please Help Me!

  • ~DyingBlackRose~
    19 years ago

    I have a boyfriend and I love him to death and I want to be with him, but sometimes it feels like he's hiding something from me and that he doesn't want to be with me. He never calls me anymore, I have to call him and I don't know what to do. I can't ask him why he doesn't call me, because I'm afraid of what he'll say to me. I hang out with him at school and everything, but school is about over and I won't see him very much anymore. and sometimes I feel like he doesn't love me at all. That he's lying to me about everything and that he doesn't want to be with me anymore. It's only been 1 month and a half, but he says he loves me. He's real honorable and he never lies. He says he cares for me and that he doesn't want me hurt or to cry, but I'm so confused right now. I don't know what to do. Can anyone help me?

  • Not Bulletproof
    19 years ago

    As much as you're afraid, you have to bring it up. Even if a phone call or an e-mail or at school, if you ignore it, it'll only get worse...and if his answer is he doesn't love you or soemthing, it's better that you know now before you fall further for him.
    Boys are silly, he might just be caught up in other things and not realizing you are stressing over the relationship. I definitely think it is important to bring it up though.
    Good luck hun, I wish you all the best xxxx

    -Mortalidaga
    xxTakeCarexx

  • ~DyingBlackRose~
    19 years ago

    Thanks for your help. It really means a lot me.

  • SatinRisse
    19 years ago

    I agree with broken butterfly.

    You might not hear what you want to but you have to take the chance if you really do care about your boyfriend. Love is about taking a chance. You have to take one and find out what is going on to make sure that it is love.

    I hope that everything works out ok. Let us know!

  • Kayla
    19 years ago

    I AGREE WITH EVERYONE...It is hard and its hard to just move on...Keep your head up

    xoxo
    Kayla

  • Lovemylove
    19 years ago

    Well maybe hun you should talk to him, and see if he's hiding something just ask him, you know if he cares for you, and loves you alot he'll answer honestly, and tell you if anything is going on or not.

  • ~DyingBlackRose~
    19 years ago

    Thank you all for your help. He told me without me asking. I was planning to ask him, but he beat. It's like he read it in my eyes. He's so sweet and he's everything I need. He does love me and all my friends agree, because of the way he looks at me, but I never asked them that until he told me. And I'm not needy, it's just that I've been hurt so much before from stuff like that, I just don't want to be hurt like that again. I think all of you can understand that. And thanks again for all you're help.

    xoxoxoxo
    Blackroseblood

  • SatinRisse
    19 years ago

    Well that's great that you guys talked. I hope that everything stays good.

  • ~DyingBlackRose~
    19 years ago

    I am not CLINGY or NEEDY. I don't need to be, but thanks for saying that I am after I already said I wasn't before. Thanks for everybody's help. I appreciate it. If any of you need help email me at blackroseblood88@yahoo.com.

    xoxoxoxo
    Blackroseblood

  • ~DyingBlackRose~
    19 years ago

    Thanks ~*angelstace*~ your advice helped. I think he was being quiet, because I was and I can't help it. I always am quiet no matter how hard I try to talk and everything. I've been quiet for so long I'm not used to talking at all. Me and him have been talking more. I hope everything works out with your boyfriend. Good Luck.

    ~Always~
    blackroseblood