My ex-boyfriend

  • Ashley
    19 years ago


    My ex boyfriend, he is from germany. He is really sweet but he broke up with me a couple weeks ago. I was suprised because he always did nice things like made me a chocolate heart one time, and chocolate strawberries. We went to Germany together during christmas break. We went out for almost a year and then he breaks up with me. I asked him why and he told me I thought I would be happier without him. He knew that I loved and cared for him. I have a feeling that he is making an excuse, I'm still in love with him and he tells me the same thing. But he is going to college next year and I still have another year left of highschool. He told me that he wants to move back to Germany, that broke my heart. Anyways, I would like to know if I can talk to him about getting back together!

    Please help this is a decision that I need to make soon

  • authum darkness
    19 years ago

    I'm still crazy in love w/ my ex. We broke up a couple of months ago, and I'm still not sure why. He told me I didn't talk enough. Guys always make excuses to get out of something they don't want to do. Of course you can talk to him about getting back together. It takes courage though. I still haven't talked to my ex about getting back together and he's graduating next year from high school. You can do it!

  • Ashley
    19 years ago

    You should deffinately ask him why he decided to break up with you and tell him to cut the " i thought u would be happier" crap cuz that is the lamest excuse ive ever heard. If you love him and you two had a good relationship together then it shouldnt be to hard to just talk to him openly about his decision. Dont wait until it is too late and you never know...thats what i did and i regret it everyday...just ask him, but make sure you are ready to hear anything prepare yourself for the worst like maybe he found another girl...you will feel so much better just go for it!!!
    Good luck hun! love ya!

  • ღ Christina ღ
    19 years ago

    dont believe wat he says! he probably doesnt like u anymor or as much as he used to! I think you should just move on...if he felt the same way about you as u do for him he'll come back to you! If he moves back to germany that means he probably wants to move on! Then i think you should move on to! Life is too short to waste it! ♥

  • Ashley
    19 years ago

    Thanks,

    but it was too late no one really replied soon enough, he left Friday to germany. He arrived about 8:30 our time (in florida). Infact that night, the night he was on the plane. I had a dream that he refused to go back because he wanted to be with me. He said that "even if I get to see you a little it would still be seeing you." But of course it was a dream not reality. It did make me sad though because he told me he would never leave me. But, promises don't last forever.

    thanks anyways girls,
    Ash