I need major help, any rude comments leave out

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    OK a friend of my familys pushed the limits, liking touching places, well anyhow after a week of my friends telling me to turn him in I did. a friend told my mom and now I heard that hes going to jail for a while, what should I do I feel horrible, and I want to go back to my old coping ways!!!

  • SatinRisse
    19 years ago

    You really did do the right thing. If might not feel like it because maybe you liked this person. Since he was a friend of the family, maybe you feel that your family is going to be mad, or that others that know him will be mad. But really....if he crossed the line, then you did the right thing! You made others see that this guy isn't as great as he comes off as...you know what I mean?

    He did something wrong. He needs to pay for what he did. Although you feel bad about it now, you have to keep telling yourself that you did the right thing. You stopped him. He can't hurt anyone. Maybe he's done this to other people. You should be happy that you had the courage to put a stop to it. You stood up for yourself by telling on him. You should NEVER feel bad for standing up for yourself.

  • Kayla
    19 years ago

    i agree^^What ever you do...keep your head up...

    xoxo
    Kayla

  • lifes big mistake
    19 years ago

    i agree look after yourself and try not to let it get to you x

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    Thanks your comments have made me feel a tad bit better but I still feel horrible because he was a friend of the family. I feel like nothing will get better at my house eirther, and just things piling up is horrible, and my mom wants me to tell her exactly what happened what should I tell her. I dont want her to know, I didnt want to tell my friend told her when I told her not too, cuz I refused

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    Thanks your comments have made me feel a tad bit better but I still feel horrible because he was a friend of the family. I feel like nothing will get better at my house eirther, and just things piling up is horrible, and my mom wants me to tell her exactly what happened what should I tell her. I dont want her to know, I didnt want to tell my friend told her when I told her not too, cuz I refused

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    Thanks your comments have made me feel a tad bit better but I still feel horrible because he was a friend of the family. I feel like nothing will get better at my house eirther, and just things piling up is horrible, and my mom wants me to tell her exactly what happened what should I tell her. I dont want her to know, I didnt want to tell my friend told her when I told her not too, cuz I refused

  • Lovemylove
    19 years ago

    Sweety you shouldn't feel guilty for doing the right thing, if others are making you feel guilty don't listen to them because it'll hurt you alot more if you do. You have nothing to feel guilty about.

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    OK he told the police it was a mutual agreement, and my mom is still letting him come down to my house, I feel so horrible Im sorry if Im annoying you all, I dont want to deal with this all,

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    I can't believe I am not here....RUDE COMMENT: you're an idiot....a complete frigin moron....

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    umm, Im a fucking gurl not a damn boy, and natallie ive read your post sometimes and your always so freakin rude so I dont care, move on with your pathic life!!!! You need to grow up and change your snotty ways and move on and actually get somefriends instead of ticking people off on the internet
    get a life, twit

  • Just Lucy
    19 years ago

    hey your the one that wants to go back to 'your old ways', that makes me think your more pathetic for even thinking of it and she is more grown up than you, i mean you didn't want to turn the loser that did this to you in for number one and number two, she is not the one saying that she 'wants to go back to her old ways' now is she

    you did the right thing by turning this guy in... and you shlouldn't feel bad because obviously he wasn't a very good family friend, and it is good that he is going to jail...

    and how were we supposed to know if you were a girl or a guy, don't get all huffy puffy over stupid things

    (huffy puffy...thats all i could think of :))

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    thanks for all your help, its been most of the summer, and over the summer my sister found out, she thinks i made the whole thing up how do i exscape from my nightmare

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    idk i think its because hes been a friend for so long she doesnt want to face it that he did it

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    thats why i dont want to tell my b/f because hell do it. i dont want to face it anymore, i want it to go away, i want a peaceful night when i can sleep it away

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    thats why i dont want to tell him