my sister......wat do i do??

my sister is 12 years old. in fact she just turned 12. she has had sex, and it was with a 15 year old when she was 11. her mom told me that her period is two months late, and i dunno if i should worry cuz i had the same problem but i am still a virgin so im not sure if its a gene thing or if something could of happened to her. im not sure wat to do. i know that she has one hell of a screwed up life and i think thats why she had sex so early or it could be that she wants to be a known slut but either way. how can i get her to listen to my advice?

Fast girls like that don't listen. They just do what they do.

the only thing you can get her to do is go to the doctors or get her a test. Did she use contraception??

did she use wat?? wat is is??

Are you serious? You don't know what contraception is? Please do us all a favor….NEVER become sexually active!!

screw you so i dont know wat contraception is so wat who cares. but if you mean birth control then i dunno but i doubt it they had sex in a teachers bathroom at school during school.

Hold on...you're 15 and don't know what contraception is? No wonder she's having sex at her age! Condoms..the pill...that kinda thing!!!!

Ok well if she didnt, likely outcome is she's pregnant, take her top a docs. Soon.

see i know wat birth control is and i know wat condoms are. i collect condoms and i am on birth control. i am smart enough but dont get all bitchy for me not knowing the technical name for birth control. plus her mom dont know that she is having sex.

ok. well anyway, if she is pregnant and you havnt taken her for a test her mum is going to find out pretty soon. She will have a bump, and her period wont come, and it will be a little obvious!

she doesnt have her period now and she hasnt had it for two months and i live in another state, how am i suppose to take her to the doctors???

How the hell was I meant to guess that?!?!? Tell her to go to the doctor's then! Get a test, look if you're not going to listen to my advice and just rebel against it, why bother asking??

Broken...you're an idiot.

wowowoow... so much argueing... WOAH!!! Anyways... your forgetting the point here.. your lil sis could be pregnant... right.. what you need to do.. is tell her you found out she had sex, and just talk to her, no raised voices just calmly like sister to sister no matter how close/distant you two are!!
Ask her if they used a condom or any contraception, and tell her you think she could be pregnant, ADVISE her to go to the docs, and tell her you'll be with her every step of the way... even if you are scared.. im sure shes alot more scared than you!!
But go with her, or just get a pregnancy home testing kit, and you gusy could do it private, without anyone knowing!! But you need to help her... be beside her... not against her!!!
Hayley-Ree xxx

fuck you natalie i am not an idiot i am just takin suggestions and i am begining to get pissed off at your bitch ass. STOP TELLING ME WAT TO FUCKING DO!!!!!!!! thanks for your advice ppl

advice is kinda telling you what to do, ok Natalie, you REALLY pissed me off before, but now im starting to like your opinions! lol.

she allready started so its too late for advice... my best friend was the same way .. we got to her to late so she NEVER changed.. im sorry but make her take a pregnancy test

okay im just guna ignore all the bitching nd upset above and just try and answer the post...okay so from the sounds of its unlikey that ur sis used contraception/birth control. i think u need to get her tested if shes pregnant that is the main thing that needs to happen because time is of the essance. also after that has happened u need to have a heart to heart wi ur sis. i know ur only 15 and it really shoulnt be ur job but if u care about ur sis then she needs sum advise. tell her the complicationa bout sex and tell her that she should wait as 11 is FAR too young. she practically a child herself! okay so all in all get her a pregnancy test/doctors appointment and then either have a heart to heart with her or get someone else to. keep in mind that ur sis is liekly to be very scared at this point and so needs all the help and support from her big sis. im sorry this responsibility seems to be fallin on ur shoulders but ur sis needs help and ur the only one who seems concerned!
take care
email me if u want some more advise, my address is on my profile
take care of urself
xxxLoUxxx

Glad to hear that Kim....

Broken...I don't care that I made you mad. Don't bother telling me, go play in traffic to relieve your stress. And you ARE an idiot. I didn't tell you what to do, merely gave a suggestion. One that you should SERIOUSLY think about.

Me? Commit suicide? No way! My life is way too good. Sorry, try again. I am definitely NOT "hatin'" on anyone. TRUST ME! You nor Broken have anything that I could possibly be jealous of. I'm confused though, how did you come to conclusion that I was a "fast slut?" I am actually engaged to a man I've been with for 5 years (we met when I was 15) So I haven't EVEN had an opportunity to be a fast slut. Ok, you'll get one more try. Come on, take you best shot....

Why the fuck would you care and in do time what? You are an ignorant fool.

Calling a truce? Um...no thank you. I don't see his age as being relevant in this conversation. Get over it. Curiosity killed the cat.