I NEED HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hey look i am so confused rite now i am in a relationship with my boyfriend and i guess you can say that i am in love with him but i have feelings for my ex-boyfriend who i was in love with from the start. My boyfriend is such the opposite of my ex. He doesnt do the special things my ex do.

I dont want to lose my boyfriend bcuz me and him been through so many things. How can i continue in this relationship if my heart still belongs to my ex.

Please i need ur advice

You have to stop and think about the both of them. Who made you happier? Who made you laugh until your sides split. Who do you love more than anything in the world? I'm still in love w/ my ex, but I started having feelings for someone else. I want my ex back so much b/c of the things he did for me. He made me smile whenever he walked into the room. He made me laugh until I couldn't breathe. I was so much happier w/ him than I ever was in my entire life, and I lost him! Don't ever lose your true love! It hurts when you do. I'm sure you'll make the right decision! ;)

Thank you very much for ur advice. I am still in love with my ex. I think i am selfish which is why i cant break up with my boyfriend for my ex. I don't wanna see my boyfriend with anyone else but me. I can't stop thinkin about my ex though when i am with my boyfriend.

If you have any extra advice please write

sounds to me like your heart's still with your ex. and my usual advice? go where your heart is. sounds really idiotic and sounds stupid, but if you think about it, that's what keeps you going in life. good luck..

well, I know EXACTLY how you feel, because I went or acctually am going thru the exact same thing... And heres the thing, you've already been in love, u know, so he's like ur first love, and nobody ever FULLY gets over their first love.. So you need to decide if u are still in love with ur ex, and if u really are, then u need to decide if u wanna be with him.. beause if u guys broke up once, theres abviously a reason for it, right? so its like no matter who ur with u can always expect to feel like ur still in love with ur ex... when more likely then not, you only miss the way that he showed his love for you, or the memories or sumthing like that... And u might just be scared to fall in love with ur current bf, and i mean like truly fall in love with him, because even tho u know that he cares about you and u care about him, you dont want to get hurt.. theres a certain insecurity there, whereas with ur ex, u knew that u were already in love with him, and that he was just as in love with you as you were with him, and that made u feel safe and like u wouldnt get hurt...
And now that im done rambling on, my advice is to do what your heart tells u to do, maybe you need to take a break from the both of them and see who u miss more? or just to think about everything, but no matter what just remember to stay true to who you are and how you feel, and to your heart...
And I hope that some of what I said makes sense! lol! anyways, good luck!! *KISSES*~Corrie

Thanks alot 4 all of ur advice but theres more 2 my story. Lately me and my current bf have been having problems we haven't spoken in 5 days and 2 me thats a long time. I don't feel bad about it and i no i should but i dont. Instead of me feeling bad i am just talking 2 my ex.
Although my ex know's i have a bf he doesn't care he still LOVES me and wants 2 be with me and so do i. To make matters worse if my bf found out about my ex he would b heart broken bcuz he is in LOVE with me.
ps-( me and my ex broke up bcuz he felt that he wasn't good enough 4 me\ and he thought he would break my heart)

Thanks 4 ur advice ur really helping me 2 make my decision**

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