Why Do Many Guys Not Believe Us Girls?

  • Ericka
    19 years ago

    Me and my boyfriend have been together for a pretty good amount of time ,but not too long. I know i am in love with him. and he says he is in love with me and i believe him. at night when we get off the phone and i say i love you baby and he goes yeah sure you do no good lookin girl can love me. you are just saying you do. but it upsets me really bad because i do really love him. why would i take the effort to lie and upset him by saying i do if i don't. i really do love him. and i wish there was a way i could let him know to where he would believe me. Why do guys always seem to think us girls are lying and we do not really love them?

  • Chris
    19 years ago

    Guys do that to get your attention to find out if you really love them. Most really mean nothing by it. At least, this is what I've seen from some of my friends. *shrugs*

  • Mel
    19 years ago

    Ericka:

    He thinks that with your looks, that one day you'll be swept off your feet by someone else!

    His mind is working on this type of eqation:

    Good looking girlfriend = many men looking at her = many men approaching her and saying 'hi' = one day good looking man comes along = girlfriend fucks me off for him. It's insecurity that he's showing. He finds you extremely attractive and so all the world must - is what he thinks.

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    okay i gota agree with the last post. hes sounds just a bit insecure about himself. however if u want him to truely believe u love him, the next time u are out with him, just stop randomly in a quite area, look deep into him eyes and say 'i love you'. im sure hell believe every word u say!
    take care
    xxxLoUxxx