Best Friend vs. Boyfriend

  • brokenXwings
    19 years ago

    I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 2 months. My best friend was all for it in the beginning. Then she told me yesturday that she doesn't really like him and he gives her "bad vibes" It makes him feel bad that she isn't exactly nice to him and I feel like I'm in the middle sometimes. I'm not going to dump my boyfriend, but I don't want any more weird situations that involve my bestfriend biting my boyfriend's head off. Any sugestions for something that I can do?

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    If she makes things weird or tries to cause conflict within your relationship she isn't a very good friend. Think about that. Maybe she wants your boyfriend.

  • sandra
    19 years ago

    In my school. I'm like "best friend" I don't like my best friends boy friend. At first he was one of my Best friends. Then me and him liked each other when he was going out with my best friend. And I tried SO hard to stop. I did. Then he started being mean to me. So I just started being mean back. It lasted for like a month. I didn't want my best friend to go out with him. But my best friend talked to me and said that she really liked him. And would like it if I tried to make peace. So I tried. I still don't really like him any more. But I pretend like it to make my friend happy. She told him the same thing. So I think he is only my friend for that reason too...

  • brokenXwings
    19 years ago

    Thanks so much for your opinions. I really don't think that my best friend likes him though. She's having trouble with guys and i thought she might have just been jealous of the fact that I have a bf and she doesn't. Anyway thank you much!

  • sandra
    19 years ago

    Oh, ok! No problem! I hope everything works out!