I'm sure somebody knows.

i know a lot of people say "let that person go".. but everyone knows that it's easier said than done. really.. think about what you want and what you need. i've been in a similar situation like yours, and i couldnt let go as hard as i tried. however, my situation with the other person was a little different than yours (meaning after the b-u). anyways, if you need to talk it out with that person to let go, then do so. but i have to say, if you're not ready to let go.. then just wait til you are. i can tell you one thing.. if you're still thinking of someone while you get involved with another person, it's not fair to that person you're with, because they dont have your undivided attention. just do what you feel is right.

--not the best advice a person could receive, but i'm talkin from experience and in honest truth. good luck with it all.

and oh yeah.. keep in mind that whatever you do, dont lie to yourself. it's just torture. attack your situation knowing what you need.

true. i have to agree with you. well hey, whatever happens, i hope you find your answer in all this soon.

if she still talks to you, then talk to her about it.. just a suggestion. as a girl myself, it's a little easier when the guy actually let's us know how they feel. and from what i think, if you're getting hints that she's interested in you, then i really hope that she's not leading you on. most girls tend to do that without knowing it.

i agree. first loves are hard to forget. and i also agree with Nada, give yourself some time.