Falling

I fell in love for the first time in a couple of years ago. But when things ended badly, it's been really hard for me to allow myself to get involved with anyone again. But lately this guy that I've liked for awhile has started noticing me... and all I can think of his to push him away because he's going to hurt me. But for the first time in about a year and a half, I feel happy again, whenever he's with me. But I'm so afraid that I'm going to be hurt again and I don't think I can handle it anymore if I do.

What do you think I should do?

I have been in the situation just like you. I was so scared 2 be with someone else bcuz he wasn't like my first love. I thought bcuz i was hurt once i couldn't fall in love again. I was so scared. Then i thought how am i supposed 2 be happy if i dont take a risk? My advice to you is to take the risk.

So thats my question 2 u. How are you supposed 2 be happy if u dont take a risk?

Thanks guys...

Whenever I'm with this new guy, as corny as it sounds, I feel like there's nothing missing in my life anymore. He makes me want to be a better person because he's one of the nicest, sweetest guys I've ever met in my life. It's just so scary, lettign someone in again. I'm afraid if I let him in he'll change or I'll change him somehow and I'll lose him as a friend as well as a boyfriend. But if I don't let him in... I'm just gonna be alone with 40 cats aren't I? LOL.

You're right bob. Thanks...

I love being in love :o)

My advice is if you have the chance take it and hold onto it with both hands...we can never know true love if we haven't been burned once or twice.

you should take the chance. you'll regret it if u dnt. you'll always wonder what if. and if u get hurt u get hurt. its a hard thing i knoe. but sometimes the best thing we can do is just learn from it. thats what life is about. learning from mistakes we make. actually...learning from every choice we make.