why did he do it?

She said that he's not replying to her emails and letters.

Duh, he dumped you and he is to chicken to say it to your face. Go over there and trash his place or something.

I kinda know what your going through, my man of 1 yr , and 5 months almost 6 months did that for about a month I know it hurts, it makes you feel like your heart is being ripped out, and stomped on if you want to talk chick. Email me at armyfantic4u@yahoo.com

Well ismail not all men hate clingness just to let u know.

lol no I'll u my man we talk everday on the phone, and 2 to 4 times a day. I know alot but we can't go a day without talkin to each other.

Wow...He must have been in love with someone else. I am sorry hun

I'm sorry this happened to you, this happened to me too. I know this sounds weird, but I had a g/f from age 8-12 and one day she just broke up with me like it had only been a week. I was crushed, but now i found someone very special. We've been together for 5 months now. I love her more than anyone else

Break-ups happen. Yeah it stings when it happens, and yeah the way your guy left you was not cool at all and I'm sure it hurts a lot more then I could ever imagin, but I dunno. Just move on. 9 months is a very long time, but if he moved or whatever, and now you guys are so far apart, then maybe he did something stupid and doesn't want to tell you, so he's just going to act like you're not there anymore. If that made any sense at all....sorry it's late. Lol.

But yeah...you need to just break lose from it, and move on. If he's going to be an ass like that then what's the point of messing around with it? Something really major might of happened and he hasn't had the time, but even so, a little call saying "something big happened...talk to you when I can" would of been better then just ignoring you. You know what I mean? Just move on with your life and don't worry TO much about it. Lol.

In respect to the title of this post, how are we meant to know why he did it???? Ask him yourself!!!