living a lie

I HATE when people use alcohol as an excuse you knew EXACTLY what you were doing drunk or not and its a worthless and gutless excuse to use. Alcohol may have given you the confidence to do things you wouldn't have done straight but you knew exactly what was happening. Be honest with him and yourself, accept you did wrong and move on learning your lesson.

Apparently you've never been wasted Eirisa, because sure you might know what your doing a little bit, but not really. Erika, I would say just tell your best friend, If you guys are as good of friends as you say you are, then he/she will understand. And I'm sorry I had to be so mean to the suicidal girl, but she needs it

I used to cut so I do know what it's like, and I have been e-mailing that girl (her name is lauren) and we have gotten to know eachother... She said I've been helping so back off. I'm sorry if I offended you

I don't know why your best friend needs to know, if it's her/his brother, then it doesn't directly invole him/her.
And Bob, I don't agree with your statement. My good friend went to a party and "hooked up" with 4 guys, some of which were unattractive, scary and she had never met before. Sometimes when you're drunk, you can't controll what you're doing.

I heard that you dont do anything you wouldent do to begin with when you are drunk....you just have the guts to do it....I suggest if you or your friend are going to use it as an excuse for doing things that are we-todd-did....just dont drink or get drunk