tubabassking
19 years ago
There's this girl and a couple years ago we went out for like 6 months and then I broke up with her for family reasons (my dad didn't like her at all) she cried of course but she also tried to kill herself. Well she moved away and I didn't see her for a while and then she moved back (Navy parents) we started going back out and then she moved away again to anouther state (Louisiana) (I live in the southern part of Texas about 6 hours away from Louisiana) Well while she's been gone I've lost my feelings for her and I want to break up with her again, but I don't want a repeat of last time where she cuts her wrists and then tries to hang herself. How do I tell her with out breaking her heart? (again) |
squirttt
19 years ago
your situation is ... i'm at a loss for words. but if you think about it, a person is responsible for their own actions. if she chooses to do what she does, it's really no one's fault but hers.. honestly, i think it may be a way for you to feel bad for her so that you DONT break up with her again. cruel, but still. she needs professional help. and it's not your fault that she does this to herself. dont make yourself suffer if you dont have feelings any more. it'll only turn out worse than it already is. good luck with everything.. contact me if you need to talk or anything.. stinky_loves_pinky@yahoo.com |
Lovemylove
19 years ago
Its pretty hard to break up with someone who has threatend suicide before, and has actually tried to because you breaking up with them.So your kinda in a rut I see. You want to let her down gently as you possible can. I know it'll still hurt her in the end but don't just like hurt her to the point where she just ends it right then, and there.Um I can really say is be gentle as you can.Sorry i'm not much help but thats all I can really say. |