bi problem plz help

My gurlfriend is going to marry this guy she has been wit for 1 yr and 9 months in 2007 and she has been planing for it for a long time. she is so happy about it and can't wait and today i told her that i didn't know what was going to happen to us when her and her guy get married and now she told me that she needs to think about that to im so scared b/c i don't want to lose her but i don't think i can prevent it. We promised each other a long time a go that we would not matter what make it too each others wedding and she never even asked me to be in hers so i don't know if i am losing her or not. Please help Ps if you're not bi you probably don't understand.

You're an idiot.

im an idiot whats that thanks thought ppl were suppose to feel better coming here you fucking bitch rot in hell ohh and your poems suck you messed with the wrong persons life missy

My poems suck? Really? You're the first to tell me that. However, I don't give a shit. I messed with the wrong person's life, eh? So what will you do to me? Vote my poems ones? Cast voodoo upon me? Oh NO PLEASE DON'T! PLEASE OH PLEASE!! HAHAHAHA

Shut the hell you little twit, you can not hurt me or get to me in any way. Give it up...you are not a big bad ass scary chick. You're 15 and are asking people about your "bi problem" grow up miss teeny bopper of the year. Dumb ass.

I normally don't retaliate to such immaturity but since you TRIED to "insult" something that is so dear to me I will....so all I will do is post this:

"I used to dream about you everyday
I used to stare from a far
I used to sneak hugs
I used to keep my feelings locked away

Now those dreams
I drempt for so long
have become reality

Having to stare from a far
Doesn't have to happen
I can have you close

The hugs i used to sneak
become reality
And so great

But most important
I no longer have to hide my feelings
From you"

ONE OF YOUR POEMS......I rest my case.

Well natalie... thats kinda harsh, all she did was ask for help with something that is dear to her!!! "But since you TRIED to "insult" something that is so dear to me" hmmmm, lets think about being hypocritical? anyway as for the one with the problem. I would say, if she has plans of getting married and she really loves him... why be so selfish and try to take that away? My advice is to move on! Your only 15 and you might screw up her marriage for a relationship? I wouldn't

Shut the hell up....how was I being hypocritical? Her problem is NOT precious. It's teeny bopper drama as she is only 15. Childs play if you will. It's kiddy stuff....now had she come on here with REAL problems I would have showed a different side. Get over it and move on....

Next....

HAHAHAHA BlondeDitz you are 11!!! HAHAHAHAHA what the hell do you know about a 69? HAHAHAHA

Ok sure, but what if everyone isnt screwed up? what if this IS her biggest problem and you show her that she cant go online with a bigger problem because she will be bashed by some bitch who thinks she knows the world. you are the idiot here, not her.. she's trying to get advice, not solve a lifelong problem. what the fuck is your deal?

I don't like teeny boppers....you know.....such as yourself. You are a complete moron. Please, come up with something better than that. Something of your own caliber....a little more original. Something other than what I have said. I don't think I know the world....but I DO happen to know you are an imbecile.

true I am, I'm a fuck up, but at least I care about people, by the way were in the "Love and Romance" section not the "Sadness and Depression" if you want serious problems to give shity advice to go there

do ppl on this site ever not fight?

I'm with you lisa, I dont like to fight, but I don't like when people bash for no reson either!

Actually, ColdFire, maybe you should go in there. See MY name every where. For people thanking me. I have helped many over there. Well, that is what they say. You can only take what people say on here with a grain of salt. But you can ask quite a few people over there. They will know me and they will tell you....So try again.....NEXT.....

ok, I'm happy you help people over there, but do you care to ask this girl if you've helped her? I rest my case... stay in the sadness and depression

No, sorry, can't do that. Deal with it. She is a dumb ass and you have proven to be one too. I can post where ever I'd like. If you don't like what I post there is a simple solution...>DON'T READ IT! Twit.

Once again you are a hypocrit. If you don't like what these people are saying about their medioker problems the DONT READ THEM. Hypocrit two times in one day, I'm questioning why you even post answers, if all you do is cause pain.

Let me explain....I don't MIND at all reading this stuff that is why I post where I post. It does not bother me. I LOVE to give MY opinion, because that is MY RIGHT. And if I cause pain to someone over the internet than that person has some serious problems and needs to seek professional help, like yesterday.

I'm sure you meant mediocre and hypocrite.

Like yesterday? what happened yesterday? anyway yes you I am sometime a hypocrit as you, if your talking about the cutting colum, but then she e-mailed me and now I'm nice and sensitive, and she said "it feels good to know someone cares about me" hmmm who has ever said that to you?

Yes, like I have stated read the other forums. You will see my name is in quite a few other places, with people saying they are glad me and a few others were there to tell them how we felt about what they were doing. How WE made them realize how stupid it was. READ DUMMY. One of the girls wrote a poem about us. You can find that too.

When I said "like yesterday" I meant they should have found help yesterday as each day that goes by they're getting worse. Like...maybe TODAY is too late. Damn you are dumb.

sure they say thank you to you and your wolf pack, but when they were coping with their problem they feel hurt. and do you ever care to find out WHY people cut? maybe people have been raped by parents, or they get hit, or people are looking for them (If you are too dnese to figure that one out it means people want to kill them) genious.

Read further. People very close to me live in severe poverty. A life you could NEVER imagine as you have a great computer to play on. People I help during the holdidays opening cans with nails and using something hard as a hammer. Siblings have to take turns going to school as there was only enough money to buy ONE pair of shoes. Please, don't tell me of your HORRIBLE problems. Not, when these families LOVE life and ALWAYS have a smile upon their faces while living in a tiny house with three and four other families. You can't even imagine what their daily lives are like and you want to tell me these little kids are cutting themselves because life is so bad. On their COMPUTERS....life couldn't be THAT BAD...

True there are wore off people out there and I never said I have problems, but some people do. And just because there are worse off people out there doesnt mean you have to be mean and evil to people with NORMAL lives, and problems that some dont know how to cope with!

No....I was talking about people who cut. People who harm themselves because of life's stress. The stress that is soooooooo bad. I have problems...lots of problems that cause me stress but I don't slice my body up. I can deal with it.

I completely agree... i thought you meant these people shouldnt post topics anymore

I completely agree... i thought you meant these people shouldnt post topics anymore

thank you for the advice and ummm i don't know ill think about it ohhh and i have to update my file im actually 16 sorry about that guys.

just forget i asked cause obviously nobody wants to help they all wanna reson to fight and about my poems they don't always say exactly how i feel you have to read them like youre someone like me or you need to know me and i think you all need to read all my poems not just snipits. And sorry i even tried but last time i posted ppl actually helped.

Lauren Martinez: You're an idiot. ANYONE can deal with life's daily stress. ANYONE. I have millions of problems which cause me loads of stress. REAL PROBLEMS. Your problems are NOTHING compared to those living in shacks and half way houses. Your problems look like roses compared to others. Others who don't cut, who always smile, and are always happy. The way you deal with life and its hassles is a CHOICE. It's a choice to kill, to do drugs, drink, cut, steal, anything. A choice that should be made wisely. However, dumb ass kids such as yourself see it as an outlet. A stress reliever. How the hell are you relieving stress by slicing and dicing yourself? You're only creating more problems and more pain. You're a twit. And I can't say enough how stupid CUTTERS are. EVERY DAMN CUTTER. Be it hundreds or millions.

And britt was not calling you a loser dumb ass she was talking to creator of this post.

It's a choice true Natalie, and i even a admit a stupid one to make.

Accept that they don't see it like that, i certainly didn't.

Well, that's what makes this world so fascinating. Everyone is different.

Nicely done.

Wow, the girl asks for advice and it's just a long post of nonsense arguments. Natalie, darling, I love you and Coldfire (Kyle) I respect you...but jeez. Some things are better left unsaid.

To you muh dear, with the problem... I think you should talk to your girlfriend about the whole situation rather than us....I'm sure you can settle this difficulty there. I wish you well.

Love, Heather

Natalie84 i like your aproach to things i'd like to do that but i've kept my mouth shut for a while cause these idiotz can't handle opinions like ours

wow, it's nice to know you can really get some good advice on these things... man, it's a good thing i'm not bi...

oh hi ismail
i ain't being a suck up
Why would i suck up to someone unless...hmmn i dont know i dont suck up all though Daisy is a suck up...l.o.l. luv ya Daisy Naw but Natalies right besides it is fun to get people mad and then prove your point and piss them off more