Depressed...help...

  • M
    19 years ago

    Ok...so here's my story.
    I just mind my buisiness. I'm just a regular kid, in a regular world, and I didnt do anything to deserve this. So, I like this girl...At the beggining of the school year it was all whatevery and oh well I'm just forgetting about her. And then i hear the news.
    --Names have been changed--
    "Hey did you hear that that girl "Judy(whatever couldnt think of a better name...) likes "Jim"
    Now this "Jim" is my best friend. At first its a rumor...then i see more of it...
    Boom. Theyre going out next thing i know.
    Im sittin' so sad crying to myself...I just cant get this off my mind. I see her like all the time in the hallways and she's in lots of my classes...
    Next thing i know theyre putting I LOVE YOU SO MUCH on their AIM profiles... Im breaking down here..I need help! :(

  • sHaTtErEdMiStAkE
    19 years ago

    I really don't know how to help you, i'm sort of going through the same thing. i like this guy a lot(and we've done stuff b4) but he's going out with my step-cousin. Anyways sorry i couldn't help better (lol)

    Maddy

  • M
    19 years ago

    Also, I'm kinda friends with her and we talk sometimes but it really kills me when she asks, "Hey do you think "Jim" likes me?"

  • Kalika
    19 years ago

    Oh dear, that is complicated. Does she know at all that you like her?

    Kalika

  • M
    19 years ago

    Okay, first yeah she does know that i like her. My (other) friend told her ALL of my secrets x.x
    "Jim" knows about that I like her. He is after all my XformerX best friend.

  • Kalika
    19 years ago

    Oh dear, I'm assuming he is a former best friend because of this whole situation. He wasn't a very good friend. What did she say when she found out you liked her?

    Kalika

  • M
    19 years ago

    What could he say? He knew I liked her when the whole year started and they didn't like each other. He even said she was ugly. Hmmm...
    Maybe he's just doing this for the sake of having a girlfriend thats all. He doesnt seem like he really likes her...more like a meh, she likes me so oh well i like her. Works for me. But maybe not...I don't know.
    He just doesn't care about other people's feelings. My (other) friend cares about me. He comforts me. And he's the reason me and the girl are friends...
    He really knows how to pick someone up, he always jokes arround and always does things for his friends and makes us happy. He doesnt care what others think of him, as long as he makes me laugh. Its awesome how good of a friend he is...
    (BTW this is other friend)(The one who told the seecrets)

  • M
    19 years ago

    Doubt that. He's doing it cuz she likes him...
    I have to admit, for a kid who was afraid to admit to her that he liked her, he sure had some balls to ask her out.

  • M
    19 years ago

    omg...shes asking me what to get for his birth day...this is really annoying and embarrasing...:(

  • M
    19 years ago

    I wonder if it's possible to hate someone and love them at the same time...I mean I hate my friend and the girl for doing this to me...but i love them both...My friend can be really nice (tho sometimes he's really stupid and inconsiderate) and the girl...well I like her.
    :(:(

  • M
    19 years ago

    He's not a good friend...I guess thats why he doesnt give a shit. Im gunna loose the fucker. Today I got totaly embarassed cuz one jackass kid yelled out to my whole class that I liked her...and she was in there. Everyone came up to me and they start asking me "Hey you like her! WOW! But she already has a boyfriend!"

  • M
    19 years ago

    I forgave the friend...and hell if i cant get the girl oh well...maybe one day luck will find me...till then oh well. I still talk to her which is good tho. Well thats life...

  • M
    19 years ago

    I can't stay bitter at him forever, besides the girl probably wouldn't like me anyways. Better not to hold a grudge against my friend, even though he can be stupid at times...

  • M
    19 years ago

    Well I can't just be pissed off at him for the rest of my life. And every time I talk to him (school, parties, whatever) I realize that he really is a good friend. I just want to be friends with him, and I think he wants to be friends with me too, but he also wants to be friends with this girl. I can't really change that

  • M
    19 years ago

    I dont feel like I'm the spare part. My friend is always the quiet one in the group. He doesnt have anything to say most of the time. But then again, maybe I am the spare part. I dont know, I just dont want to loose a friend over some bitch.
    Bros before hoes.