Is cyber love possible??

  • marilyn marti
    20 years ago

    hey guys im in love with someone on the internet and ive known him for awhile-about 3 months and we are a couple-is cyber love possible??

  • Ben
    20 years ago

    Internet love is possibe - weather it works out or not is a different story. . .
    Best of luck
    Ben

  • Ş∂ņďħy∂
    20 years ago

    It is possible. But it is too hard. The distance kills you every moment. But love brings back life, in between every moment. :D

    The age doesn't make a difference, if your thoughts are matured. Even i fell in love when i was 14. Long distance love. The geographic distance kept increasing with time. Now i am 23 and half way around the earth away from him. Trust me It's difficult to be like this. At the same time it's worth it. Best of luck.

  • Lydia O
    20 years ago

    I believe that becoming acquainted with someone over the internet is OK provided you can soon meet and have a normal relationship. Sustaining a long-distance relationship for an indeterminate time with someone you haven't met face to face is difficult and often painful. That is my 2c.

  • TC
    20 years ago

    personally for me it would be too hard, I mean you cant hold their hand, you cant look into their eyes, you cant hug or kiss them, its really hard, but if you both belive its possible then go for it

  • Arlinda
    20 years ago

    Yea I'm sorry I would have to agree with some others cause you never know if he's some wierdo..or some perv tryin to rape you or somthing ya know. I think a good thing would be if you trust him enough to send letters back and forth ...and call him on the phone..and if you have cam on computer and make sure he does too..use that while you talk..but make sure l8er on you try to meet him on day you know. Other than that the long distant thing shouldnt be so hard if you keep contact and such.

  • Vanessa
    20 years ago

    Cyberlove huh? well...i have to say i went through the same thing. But that's the past.

    Anyways, love over the net may and may not work. Coz you'll never know if he have someone else on the other side, but you'll know if he is true and genuine if you feel it. Well, thats my opinion. (Not really an advice)

    Nessa (Thats my nick okay?)

  • Chris Engle
    20 years ago

    i believe cyber love is entirely possible.. I myself have had an online relationship for nearly 3 years before.. as everyone has arleady mentioned, the distance is extremely painfull, but the time you spend together, getting to know eachother, trust eachother, LOVE eachother... priceless. that relationship has fallen thru for me.. she couldnt handle the distance any longer and well.... hooked up with some guy in person... that killed it.... distance is the biggest problem, and getting together in person soon usually seems to be the remedy for that problem. just be sure you know the person is who (s)he says (s)he is, and that you can trust him/her.
    cyberlove, is just as great as in person, in some ways, better. in person, often times (not always) relationships are led by lust. whereas online, you fall in love with the person's personality, intellect, their heart, ect. which is what a relationship truely needs. and when you get together in person, you know eachother soo well, its extremely easy to get along, have fun together, ect. because you know so much about eachother. also, internet relationships can be a big test of loyalty, trust, devotion, and love itself. if your online boyfriend/girlfriend cant remain loyal/devoted to you while going out online, whats to say he/she will in person? and if you cant develop trust with him/her after getting to know them and dating online for a while.. will you ever? see what im saying? online relationships can work JUST AS WELL as in person relationships. all it takes is both people treating the relationship as real as it is, (dont treat it like a simple game) and have honest love.
    heh, thats all not really in any special order or anything.. just typed w/e i thought as it came to me. anyways, thats my opinion/advice or w/e. take it as you will.

    ~chris