friends with your ex?...

Shows maturity to be friends with your ex after (dependant on how you broke up)

Yeah I'm still friends with my ex. It's hard coz I still lvoe him, but we're pretty close.

Hmm, I'm not sure. Personally I can't be friends with my ex, we broke up in a bad way and I still care and love him so much. I find it impossible to laugh and joke with him and pretend nothing has happened. I don't want to see him with other girls.
I think it depends on your circumstances. Everyone is different.

I'm good friends with all my exes, we are pretty close too. t takes a while, but it can definitely be achieved.

perfectly possible, im friends with mine

Its possible even though he hurt me to the extreme me & my ex fiancee' Steve are still friends I wouldn't say good friends but we are friends. I defiantly think that if can work if you too are willing to work your differences out.

it's very possible to be friends with your ex. be mature about it. i was in a on and off little lovey dovey thing (we literally grew up together.. not in the same home and stuff) since we were what.. way before kindergarten. the typical boy/girl next door and we went to the same church and our families were always close. his mom always calls me "daughter-in-law" lol. even after the last of it all, we still remained awesome friend and he's a big part of my life. what's the big deal?

yeah i think its possible to be friends with your ex im still friends with most of mine and one of them now is like my big brother he watches out for me and when im cryin or hurt he makes sure everything is ok. but i guess it just depends on how you break up like everyone was saying i don't think it would be the same if i wasn't friends with him it would just be to weird

Yes of course you can be mates with your Ex. espeshially (sp) if you were best mates before. My Ex-Boyfriend We have always bin good mates. And after years and years i started feeling something for hm (he already had feelings for me) But we decided to go out. We had a great 6 months and 10 days but we decided that it would be better if we were just friends (he liked sumone eles) and i wasn't as happy as i started out to be. For about a week it was weird we just kept apologiseing (sp) for hurting each other (even tho we didn't) and now we are best mates we talk about everything and have such a laugh. He went to spain the other week and bought me a donkey :D!! I still have to go and get it tho. lol. He said he would give it to the lass he fanices if i don't go and get it soon.......so......back on the subject. Yes Ex's can be friends....even best friends if you try. :P lol

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I am friends with all my ex's. Only two of which i had a deep relationship with. And i remain good friends with the both of them ( and the rest). It mite take sometime but it is possible to be friends with your ex.

hey ,i think its possible but only if both sides wanna help keep the old friendship,i broke up with my ex ,i promissed her that i we will be best friends ,she said same thing ,with time she just changed,looking at me from a side ,talks to all my friends asking a general question to everyone ,awating for an answer from everyone but me ,ive noticed it ,her tone of voice changes when she starts talking to me ,i dont know why but i guess its hard even thou she used me while her bf was away in other state ,and when he came back she broked up with me ,she had nothing towards me then ,but at list she talked ,now we see each other like 1ns in two weeks and even those few minuts near her adds some venom in my heart :(

it's possible, iu'm friends with most of mine and best friends with one......

yea, you don't have to be best friends like you used to be, but enough to show that your not immature and can get through the tension thats between you.

its hard at first especially if they broke up with u cos ur feelings will still be strong but i think it does show matuiry the fact that u can still be friends. i mean its not worth throwing the friendship u build up away just cos u fell out of love is it?!
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im still really good friends with my ex, and really its worth it, me and talk more then we did when we were going out.....the only prob is i like him again oooops lol

my 2nd boyf is my best friend, i'm gay though so that illiminates all feelings!!! i don't even like boys any more!!! :)

I'm not friends with my ex boyfriend, it wasn't a very good breakup...although I am over him now, I don't think we could ever be friends because of what happened, thats part of my past now and thats where it shall remain.

Plus he lives far away so its kind of difficult for us to be friends anyways. We did try but he kept telling me these things and messing with my head. I don't agree with what has been said that if you can be friends with ur ex it shows your maturity. If you had a good relationship fair enough, but not everybody does (including me and my ex boyfriend) and so for me and him its better for us if we don't have any contact or if we see each other just say hey or something. But we can't be friends, I'd like us to be, but I don't think that will ever happen.