Hey ...I am afraid and want some advice

Okay I honestly can't belive that I am writing about this but me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 months and sex had come up but I am a virgina n I am afraid that my firs time will hurt really bad excpecially with him because he is big...lol! So fot those who know what its like help me please?

It hurts. Very much so. But if you're not ready he should understand if he loves you. Don't go rushing into anything to quickly, 3 months isn't that long, but hey if you're ready, you're ready.

Yea hun it does hurt, it just depends how hard he takes it with you if he takes it too hard then it'll hurt pretty dang bad.But if he's gentle it shouldn't hurt to bad unless he's big. But remember don't have sex unless you know your truly ready.