songs to cut to

songs to cut to...

how to fix everything - bayside
iris - goo goo dolls
any JAMES BLUNT song is good
try not to breathe - R.E.M.

Oh my God! I can't even believe you people take it this far.

oh yeah let's just encourage EVERYONE to cut!! i mean who cares about them, right?! God... this is just sad....

Just teaching every single aspect of cutting to vulnerable kids.

thanks!

now you guys are just asking for people to bitch at you....i can kind of understand someone asking for help on how to quit cutting, but posting songs that are good to cut to?? wow....i thought i was messed up *shakes head*

thanks?? why are you saying thanks??

its not about what songs are good to cut to, i was hoping this would be more about poeple expressing how they feel whilst they cut by the songs they listen to at the time.

Gemma you are an idiot. You have made NO sense.

umm i'm with natalie on this one....

fine.

I agree with natalie. You are a complete idiot gemma.

Of course lauren would answer....YOU NEED JESUS

if you think i am an idiot why are you bothering to tell me? do you think that i dont know i am not meant to be alive? well i do i have always known.

now your going to go off on one about how you never said that, but i really dont care, i have things to do, i havent bled for a few days and i think now is the right time. im not blaming you, im blaming my stupidity.

Gemma...I think you need to seek professional help. That whole post was just weird. Maybe you should come live with me. I'll remove all sharp objects from my home and get your mind right.

-This was a bit harsh before-

Just stop pitying yourself gemma.

is that what you think? i need help. they tried. they tried. but i wouldnt take their pills. i wont eat their food and i wont live their life!

Ok....you need a higher power....JESUS

You're creeping me out maaannn

scared of whats different?

You are NOT creeping me out really. More like disappointing me.

scared of the dark? the monsters under your bed maybe?

how about scared to live?

why am i disappointing you?

Whats disappointing is that some people are too weak to face real world problems in a decent way. Rather than finding a less selfish solution, you choose to hurt yourself which also hurts your family, friends, and anyone else who cares about you.

Songs to cut to???? Are you serious???

Give me a break!

'songs to cut to????' yes i am serious

people dont understand my world and thats ok because i could live in your so called 'real' world, i tried and it nearly killed me

from what i can understand about you Natalie84 you are a hateful person who thinks self harm is something that we should feel shame for. well i say no. i spent the last 4 years of my life hiding from people because of what they might think of me and i am not going to let people like you put me back in my prison.

You should feel shame for it as you are hurting yourself and others. To cause heartache and pain upon others is shameful. In my opinion. Maybe you feel differently being that self harm is extremely selfish and in the eyes of some, no one else is affected. But you'd be sadly mistaken. It disappoints me that there are actually people out there facing this situation. It's disappointing that you call me hateful and don't see that I'm only sharing my opinion in hopes that you'll look at it a little differently and realize what you are doing not only to yourself but to your family and friends.

And to add one more thought....isn't cutting, you putting YOURSELF in a prison. In the sense that that it is your only outlet and that is how you deal with life....you cause more pain upon yourself....You crying in a corner with a razor blade is in fact YOUR choice....

Well, I am headed out of town...we'll have to cotinue this conversation later.

my friend nearly died from cutting and i had to sit and watch it happening. (she started after me) this is my way of coping and i am always in control of whats going on.

Erm yeh bit late: I think "poetic tragedy" by The Used is good to cut to. i think its kinda depressing and yeh ok im gonna stop now a full music g.c.s.e answer is not needed...
Love Kate x~x~x

No answer is needed Kate. Think of the possible consequences of this post. A child reads something on here, finds the same song someone suggested and starts harming themself while they listen to it. I started cutting after someone I know said they did it to help get rid of the pain they were feeling. I was quite a bit younger then and obviously I tried it to see if it would make me feel better. My brain must of been so screwed up, I actually thought it was helping me. Ive now realized that it was a totally idiotic thing to ever do, but the point im trying to make is that people do get influensed (sp?) by what others do. I hope the person who started this post is happy that they might of just got someone to start self harming.
I also agree with everything ismail said.

Well i look on it this way if someone wasnt already depressed they wudnt be here- on the depression boards. And its not exactly as if they are never going to have heard of cutting so this isnt gonna make them do it. But hey opinions are opinions.
Love Kate x~x~x

Yeah but I had heard of cutting before my friend told me she did it. Its when she made it sound like a good thing that I started myself.
Also people dont have to be depressed to come on here. They might be trying to help people or something. Its actually a fact that if you spend time around depressed people you can become depressed yourself so yeah my opinion is that things people read or hear can make them start a habbit or make some sort of change if you know what I mean.

Yaha i totally get wat ya mean and kinda feel the same. I didnt start cutting cos i heard it BUT i continued cos i knew i wasnt on my own. Its like a rreeeally complicated subject and i have loads of opinions on it but i hate to argue sooooooo lets not :D
Love Kate x~x~x

Lol ok kate ill try not to start an argument. Its just gemmas topic bothered me. I just think it might encourage cutting. Even if its not people who haven't cut before, someone who already cuts might think 'Yeah im going to buy that music now' then listen to it and decide to cut up their body at the same time. Ok I think I've made it clear what I think about this topic now. My work here is done :)

And frozenteardrop I was talking to kate not you

Okay, I think that this whole post was a waste of time, you should have titled it "Songs to NOT cut to!" because obviously these songs have a lot of emotion, maybe it will convince you that other people go through this stuff, and they DON'T cut! Natalie84, usually I disagree, but I must say, you are exactly on the dot here. But I have one question.. do you really hate people that cut? Or do you care, you just show it by ermm.. being mean? (I don't mean it like that..)

Why an earth have you posted this dumb thread. It's pathetic and needs deleting. ''Songs To Cut To'' ... How stupid can you be.

EEEEEEEEEEEK!

I might as well cut because this thread is so idiotic.

geema i totally know how you feal and every body else you can clearly see she is very deppresed yall can hear that now look back at the things yall are saying to her i mean do you really think that is going to make her feal better about herself.shame on all of you i'm going to say sorry for the way that they affended you.and i am also sorry for all of you that can be that hateful and wrong.i hope yall feel good.

and when i cut i listen to slow songs and i sing my own song to it because i am to focused on cutting that i don't listen to the words i like
funeral for a friend- your revolution is a joke

Brittney~I'm not sure the whole Jesus thing was necessary. Some people aren't religious, or have a different religious preference. I think it's best if we leave Jesus *out* of this conversation, lol. But thanks though.

Nice convo, btw, lol. Very interesting....This thread actually compliments Natalie. She has some nice moments, who couldn't known?

Gemma, you obviously sound like a verrrrry sad person. I do think that if you particularly don't want to feel sad, you should get help. Songs to cut to isn't generally a good topic, but hey, I'll just throw my favorite song in here for the hell of it.

Switchfoot~Are you who you wanted to be. That song actually makes me cry. But never cut. In fact, I think it discourages it in a way....i don't know. Just a song. LOL! AND by stating my song, I am NOT telling you to go cut or anything to it. I'm just saying, that's my favorite sad song. I hope I cleared that up a bit....lol.

~Sierra