songs to cut to

I only read through half of these posts, but I just wanted to say that normally I never agree with the people who are always bashing on people who self harm. Because I did myself(havn't for 2 months)though I don't premote it or brag about it in anyway, I only defend. but right now, I agree that this is just sad. I can understand that people come into this forum for help and advice about cutting...but what is this? it's just like someone said earlier, some kid could read this, listen to one of those songs, and hurt themselves. and I'm sorry to say this site is where I first heard about self harm, and I'm not proud of it but I started a few months later. So even though I love this site and think there are alot of great people here, sometimes it makes me sad...how far people will go. We need to help hold eachother up, not bring eachother down and encourage stuff like this, even if we do it ourselves. if someone has a song they like to cut to, it shouldn't end up here. Self harm is sad, and it's a big problem. Why make it sound like somthing that's ok to do?? even if you do it yourself.

Meh i barely read any of these posts, but come on! Have you not taken it too far? I bet you've taken it beyond a pain release. Why? Why would you post that? Good way to encourage people to cut. Good fu*king on ya mate.!

I agree with you beautifully broken ... totally.

Carving, yes, I was friends with Hailie, no, I wasn't "pretty damn good friends", I commented on her poems and offered support and my ears to listen...and I am friends with a lot of cutters at the moment. No, I don't bash them, because they are my friends, and they know where I stand with this, and I don't support them cutting, I am trying to help them quit cutting.
I am a former cutter as well. I have quit, and I know anyone can quit if they try, and I know that people bashing me is what made me stop.
I don't bash people who don't deserve it. I bash morons who make threads like 'songs to cut to'. I wouldn't bash Hailie, or anyone else that I knew had more than they could handle. I don't even bash people anymore, and I barely did at all. Just the stupid moron who made this goddamn thread, so what the f u c k are you on? Seriously.

-Mort.

my friend nearly died from cutting and i had to sit and watch it happening. (she started after me) this is my way of coping and i am always in control of whats going on.

ya know what... that kinda made you sound like you have to prove to us that your not a copycat and obviously you are because you felt the need to say, she started after me. who the fuk cares who started it, its not a competition you idiot. man your really dumb. songs to cut to??? oh yup im really a bit down better go make a cd of all these songs so i can sit down and have a cut. get a grip and dont give other people your stupid ideas

I have read some ridiculous responses to this thread. It seriously bothers me to read things like this. You said thanks up at the top Gemma for me and another saying you were teaching others all aspects of self harm. Does that satisfy you? Does it make you feel all mighty and powerful? I think it makes you look foolish and self centered. I think you're an idiot for this thread. Someone else said that suicide was a person's last option. There is never a last resort. There is ALWAYS something that can be done. That's the most idiotic statement I've read/heard in my life. I can't believe you actually said that. Self harm is ignorant and extremely selfish. How can you look yourself in the mirror knowing all the pain and agony you're causing to yourself and your family? Does that make you cool? Does it clear away all your problems? Really! What the hell does it do for you people?

I just read through this entire post... and wow. Just... wow. I don't agree with the topic of this post, that is true. It's not a great topic... it's giving cutters ideas. So, yes, I do dislike this post... but that's not the main reason why.

This post... turned from "songs to cut to" to "let's bash the cowardly cutters." I'm not a cutter... and I won't ever be. But, like CarvingCrimsonSmiles said before me, there are cutters who aren't at fault for what they do. He's a very good friend of mine, and he got depression forced upon him. He did not choose to be depressed... it's a disease. He cannot help the way his mind works, although, he's doing the best he can to change his point of view. He's gone to get help, and he's taken too many meds to count - he's trying to get through this. It's very offensive to tell him he's a coward when he's fighting so hard... so very hard to overcome this obstacle. There are cutters who I dislike very much - the wannabes and the attention wanters. Not all of these people are clinically depressed... they just have too much self-pity and don't know how to handle it. I agree, these people are being incredibly ignorant and need to suck it up and find another release. Cutting isn't just able to drop, though, it becomes a habit (so I've heard).

Please, even if you disagree with cutting as I do, don't bash the ones that are handicapped with depression. They do their best to fight it... not all cutters are cowards.

I've been called a lot of hurtful things on this site ~ bitch, self-centered, and the most hurtful one to me - a plagerizer. And that's because I work hard to write my own work... just like a lot of depressed people work hard to overcome. Don't generalize what you may not for sure know... Genna, for all you know, could be clinically depressed. And maybe not... maybe she wants attention. But don't insult what you may not know... find out the facts.

Again, this thread is not a great topic. I wish someone would shut it before it gets MORE out of hand.

God Bless!
Car

I'm handicapped with depression. I'm fighting to make it just as you stated some people are. I've been clinically depressed for almost 2 years now, and when I was bashed it -still- helped me. Maybe some people are more clinically depressed than others, or maybe some people just don't want to try and have no will power. But I thought I had none, I said that I was hopeless and I had nothing, but I still managed to stop cutting.

In a sense it doesn't matter if your clinically depressed or just sad. If you get some sort of motivation to quit cutting then you do it. In my opinion if you just keep cutting cos you need the release, then that just makes you a quitter. No offence to my friends or to anyone...I'm jsut saying anyone can stop if they try, hell, I thought I was f u c ked for life, stuck with cutting, but I stopped now, cos I was bashed into my senses.

I don't think cutters are cowards, I think they choose to not face reality and the fact they DON'T NEED cutting. No one needs to cut, it doesn't matter how depressed you are, you can still make it without cutting. No one "needs" cutting, you can process that into your brain as much as you want, I did before, but no one really needs it, and if you think that, you're wrong.

I'm glad your friend is trying to fight his depression...good on him, I wish him good luck. I agree and dislike attention seekers greatly. But I think that Gemma is not clinically depressed...and if she is she wants the whole world to know, which is stupid cos most clinically depressed people hide that.

I think I answered to most of that, and I'm sorry I didn't respond in order.

-Mortalidaga.

"I don't think cutters are cowards, I think they choose to not face reality and the fact they DON'T NEED cutting."

To NOT face the reality of something is being a coward.

okay well im a "cutter" and i agree that this is just the most ridiculous thing in the world. "songs to cut to" it is like you are promoting it, whether you wanted it to seem that way or not it does.
~*Freak*~

I suppose so Natalie..lol, I think I wrote the beginning (sp?) and was going to write something different after it, but didn't...sorry. Lol.

It's a discussion Mort no need to be sorry. We all have a different opinions.

There's a dead one...

who's dead?

anyway...what kind of song can you cut to? what the hell kinda question is this? I doubt thats what people are arguing about right now but I didn't want to read everything.

Amusing isn't is?

what are you guys talking about? whats so funny? I want in...

This thread...these people....this conversation.....cutting....all of it.

o yea, pretty damn funny. o wait, i havent even read it yet. i don't think cuttings that funny though. I heard it kinda hurts...but i dunno thats just what people say...

It's funny to me. It's funny that these little kids actually think it helps. It's hilarious actually.

Ooo...HAHAHA! now that I think of it, yea thats pretty funny! dumbness can be funny sometimes. people are so dumb.

LOL!! OMFG that was rich!!!

i do agree with mort and natalie and everyone else, dont get me wrong. i think this thread is awful, but as foxyblondfemme said... it turned into just bashing kids with problems; that's not cool. i totally see WHY you were pissed, tho... gemma, this does kind of promote cutting... i mean, if you had ASKED good songs, i think people would be a teensy bit more lenient on you... but you only GAVE people songs to cut to. i wouldnt call you a moron or anything, but it's unbelievably foolish and... wow... i've got nothing more to say

^^ agreed

LMFAO @ Chris....that was funny!

LMAO....I hope you know he was kidding...because I might have to slap you for that

Hardy har har...

wow! Things like this are better left unsaid it kinda makes you sound a bit creepy hun! =D

yea i agree with you. this is really kinda sad, whether u want ppl to talk bout them cutting and how they feel or not. maybe u should've asked pple to express how they feel when they cut...not what songs they cut to. i think u made the wrong approach. :) but nice try. maybe u should choose a somewhat happier subject next time!!!

Btw...I really didn't want to sound like Bi-ch in my post. I agree 100% with Zac and Carlee. If you had broadened the post a bit more, there probably wouldn't be half as many people bashing it. Then again, there are always the few who simply enjoy insulting people....so...yeah.

FallenAngel-You chose the BEST songs in the world. Broken is on my xanga, cuz i Love it soo much, and Scars by papa roach, well, I just love that song to death.

*Hippie Moment* Spread the peace and love, folks.

lol.

~Sierra

Don't shune Dry Kill Logic like that.

Ismail have you always had to make an arguement out of everything?

*sigh* People are so silly.

Yes, Ismail it is.
You'll never have a civil conversation if your always trying to pick a fight with the person or question them constantly.

Haha, yes I care for you.

hiya Gemma, i just wondered did you think, by posting this topic everyone would write their songs down and stuff, or there would be some sort of reaction? i used to cut myself, still think about it, but just thought i'd say take care and dont be sad :D xxxx

I do!

now, must we resort to name calling? I wanna see hard-core facts. That will determine the real winner of this sensless areguement.

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I am Professor Smart Ass.

Ismail is the greatest of all thinking idiots.

Yes, I am proud to be the biggest idiot.