In_Your_Eyes
19 years ago
If any of you have a love problem or question I will listen and tell you what I think. I should be on all day, so you can expect a quick answer, unless I am kicked offline or something. I am bored, so I thought I would do things a little differently... |
In_Your_Eyes
19 years ago
I am not exactly sure what you mean by cheating. Did he just make out with another girl, or did he do something far worse? It is hard to trust someone again after they broke that trust. Trust is definately the most important thing in a relationship. I think you should talk to him about it. Be honest with each other, that is where the trust comes from. I am not sure why anyone would want to cheat on their gf/bf. If you do give him another chance and he does it again, he is not worth it and you should move on. There are plenty of guys out there who will give you all of their attention and never even look at another girl. |
In_Your_Eyes
19 years ago
Sounds like more trouble than it is worth. You seem like you don't want it at all and it is only your love/like for her that keeps you in the relationship. I think you should talk about it. Tell her exactly how you feel and ask her for her thoughts and opinions on the subject. If she isn't willing to listen and help make things better than she isn't worth it. |
In_Your_Eyes
19 years ago
I understand. I am not sure i understand why you are still with her. I mean, I understand you not wanting to hurt her, but you are only hurting yourself by staying with her. I am sure you will find the right words to say, and when she realizes how great you are for putting up with all of that and being so kind to her, she will forgive you and you can be friends or maybe you could work things out and try again. |
In_Your_Eyes
19 years ago
You too, hope it helped! |
ASPHYXIATED
19 years ago
can i but in? |
In_Your_Eyes
19 years ago
I mostly agree with everyone. I am not sure how you told her, but I know when a guy tells me that he likes to me face to face I automatically think he is joking, cuz guys mess around with me like that. I am not sure if that is her thinking, but that would be the only reason that i wouldn't reply. I say stay on it, do little things for her that would prove that you like her. |