Boyfriend Dilema

Ok, i have been going out with this guy for 6 months now. And we are really in love, it is kinda the perfect story blah blah blah. But i have reall issues with trust. My mum had two affairs when she was married to my dad, and to see her (who supposedly loved my dad) hurt her like that has always made it hard for me to trust people. I have never had a serious relationship. But even though he says he wouldnt cheat on me, i just feel that he would, not because he has done anything to suggest that, but i just feel like he is too good looking for me and so maybe wants some one more attractive for just a no strings attached thing. I mean he goes out all the time and has loads of friends, and he doesnt know how i feel, and if i told him he would get upset and just say but you know i wouldnt. I feel so evil for thinking like that but i cant help it. I dont know what to do???

I know how you feel. My dad cheated on my mum and then basically abandoned me and my sisters. I now find it hard to trust boys. I've never been in a relationship until now and I think that's why. I know he is in love with me though. He knows about my trust issues and is always telling me he loves me to put my mind at ease. Tell your boyfriend. If he is worth it, he will understand and do anything he can to help you trust him. Good luck!!
love sarahxxx

Yea i know what youre saying but i just dont know how to say that to him, cos it will really hurt him

i kno what you mean, i had a boyfriend in 5th grade who was a hottie and he had alot of friends, girl friends and he always went out with them to "hang out". my friends started telling me things like he was dating them and cheating on me with them but i didn't talk to him about it, i just broke up with him. so oyu should talk to him first about it, if he really likes you, it won't hurt him that you askabout it.

The best thing to do is talk to him so I agree with Brittney. Tell him how you feel. If he cares for you he will understand and make sure he doesn't break your trust.