Sean
19 years ago
Hi, i've been a poster here for the past week or so really....never one to ask for help, as frankly i believe i don't need it. |
Lil Luce
19 years ago
Hmmmm tricky scenario.....well all i can say is go with what ur heart feels. noone can tell you whether it will work out or not only time will tell but if its what u both want then i cant see any problem init. altho remember u cant get married till ur 18 without ur parents consent...i think gettin engaged is okay if thats what u both want but PLEASE dont rush into marriage cos thats a lot trickier to get out of. just take ur time and if u still together by then and love each other then go ahead. good luck and im pleased u found the right girl...just make shes the right girl not the right for now girl! |
shes a killer
19 years ago
ok..i can relate. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months and we really do love each other. we can't stand to not see each other. he talks about marrying me and proposing to me on a beach b/c i love beaches. anyway, i think that it's ok to think about it and talk about it about you shouldn't rush b/c you guys can get too involved with one another. teenagers honestly don't know what love is and can't determine what they want. i think if that's what you feel you should go for it but you have to remembe rthat your still in school and things are different once you get into the real world..ppl are different. i'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15 and we talk about it and we know we love each other and i bet that you know you love her..but just think about it before you do anything. |
Lovemylove
19 years ago
Personally Sean I don't think your rushing into things if you love the girl with all your heart, and you think you can make a contiment to her, and keep it then yea then you should go for it, I am enaged to a wonderfully guy, and I'm only 15 going on 16 so I think of enagement at 15 or 16 as a good thing if the person is truly ready to make a contiment to other person, and keep it. |
InMyWorld
19 years ago
i agree with most of the things in the above posts, but honestly, either wait to propose, or have a very long engagement...wait until after high school to get married...if you can do that, then your relationship is strong enough and the love will be true...time can change so many things and we can't control it. be careful and just wait a bit. good luck :) |
Dorotea©
19 years ago
I would suggest waiting. Wait till you're both atleast 18, because seriously, I don't believe a 15 or a 16 year old is mature enough to understand the consequences of marriage. |
InMyWorld
19 years ago
i agree...and like i said before, if you're able to wait that long and still maintain your happiness, than you'll know its worth it. but if you find out that over time it doesnt work out, it'll be easier to break up than to divorce and have to deal with legal, emotional, and possibly family issues (kids?) |
Tiny Reader
19 years ago
Go for it. If you love, respect and honour her and she feels the same about you, then you are so lucky. You have been given a gift and should take it. Don't let every thought of what could go wrong tear you away from what your heart says. |
Shædow Poet
19 years ago
I'm sorry, but I think you should wait until you're 18. As harsh as it sounds, you may love her now, but in a few years your feelings may have changed. And if they don't, then you know it would've been worth the wait. |
squirttt
19 years ago
DON'T DO IT. Sean, if you really love her, let her live her life a little longer! i know that sounds psychotic, but really. i've seen sooo many people who, even at age 17-19 get hitched and things dont work out after a few months. seriously, i know how it feels to just want to keep one person to yourself and belong to just one person. you're young and you have so much to live for. give it a few more years, and if you survive those few years ahead together, THEN you can think about marriage. i also think that the both of you really really need more experience with life and what it has for you in the years to come. and if you both love each other enough, you'll wait for the right time to do what you want. good luck with everything. |
Sean
19 years ago
I'll talk to her - she doesn't know about any of it. |
InMyWorld
19 years ago
if she really loves you she'll forgive you so tell her the whole entire truth...cuz trust me, if she finds out more details from others it will hurt her even more than if you told her, and she'll think you're keeping things from her. also...those girls...becky and amy--dont they know you have tracie? if they do...what bitches to let you do that! |
Sean
19 years ago
Becky likes me, Amy just liked the flirting i guess.. |
Sean
19 years ago
Told her, but then showed her a poem i had wrote for her...'Angel, insect solution' |
InMyWorld
19 years ago
oh...i see. either she completely forgives you, or she wants to pretend it didnt happen and forget about it b/c its too painful and/or she can't deal with it, or doesnt know how to due to her self esteem issue and stuff. |
Catty
19 years ago
Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for that long (four months) and we have strnog feelings for eachother so i'm not doughting ur feeligns for her. and as i see it...marriage has no age...as long as u believe u will stay true to her and she to u...marriage is not a title....its a promise...if ur ready for that promise and know u can keep it...go for it! |