Age Difference

Would it be that bad to hook up with a 21 year old for one night (im 16). hes an outta towner n super hot n lastnight we were all close n stuff (holding hands n he was touching my legs)....

so do u really think its that wrong to have a one night stand with a 21 year old is my qeustion haha?

yes and no.

for 1 if people find out ur llegal to do anything with.

but for 2 if no one fines out.. it should be fine.

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i think that's fine. just.. i just find it kinda weird if you're in a situation like cameron diaz and justin timberlake though.. not necessarily hating on them, but at least yall are still young and the girl is younger! that's not too bad. just becareful. :)

NOT FINE! Look at all these rape stories on here! You don't know this guy, a one night stand just ruins your reputation, and can get you pregnant. He can basically do whatever he wants. It's just wrong, you aren't even legal yet!
Hope you make the right decision,
~*Emmy

Didn't you ask the same thing?
You are not going to get to many people that support this stop asking it.
Dumb asses that post the same shit over and over again. I want to shot them.

ididnt mean to post twic.e.. i posted this one first n forgot where i posted it. so i posted another one

Well in my opinon I think it is if your not going to see him ever again why do it? Now if you were asking would be a good idea to date one or marry one for love i'd say hell yea but just for a one nightstand no way.

I think that you shouldn't do it. The risk of having a one night stand with a older guy is pretty serious. You don't even no him or who he slept with the night b4 or if he has some type of disease. So Be careful what ever your decision is.

lol every wek 1-2 girls write me from the messenger asking for pictures and stuff,we talk and then wehen it comes to asking what age is she it goes to 3-4 years younger than me ,then it just slows everything down for me ,i am 18 and dating 14 or 15 year old girl for me is kind a dumb,my sister same age and i can see that she is still a child,a lot of things she just dont understand ,ofcourse i can date for personal reasons (u know what i mean guys ) but i dont do it "maybe few times ",i am not saying that age that i listed is fir small girls and dumb ones ,no just saying that age difference will be a barrier of understanding that i know from experience

Well just know that if anyone finds out about it, like your parents, the guy could be charged with statatory (sp) rape.

I don't think that it's a good idea not only because of the age difference, but also because of the fact that I think one night stands are so childish, and stupid. Sex is something special. Why would you want to have sex with someone that you will never see again?

There are just some things in this world that I will never understand.

Age is more than just a number. Seriously, how do you know if the guy really loves you or just your body? He is an adult, you're not. Of course he says he loves you, but seriously I think he means your body.

your body is you. you Are in your body.

age isn't anything but a number. why do we have an age..age limits? there flippin stupid. its your choice if you wanted to do anyhting with this guy. if u think it was a right thing to do..then it was a right thing to do. if you think its the wrong thing to do then its the wrong thing to do. but personaly i think your questioning this hole thing becuz your posting somehting on here about it. but its all good im in a relationship with a 20 year old and im 15. hes amazing. well good luck with everything

Love knows no age, there is almost 15 years between myself and my partner. He's my best friend ad the father of my child. As much as it may have shocked people, both friends and family intially, we prevailed and are still together. I can't imagine life without him. If anything I think our difference makes our relationship stronger and more compassionate, the understanding we have for other is pure and honest, because we are still so in love, aside from the criticism we recieved from others when we first got involved. Sometimes we must follow our hearts, and let go of control of our minds and see where the love takes us...look where it got me :o)

(Of you are under 16 please ignore the above post LoL) :oD xoxo

lol..in a way it's wrong, but my friends hook up with older guys all the time, my friends 14 and her "boyfriend" is 27.....so, if it's kool with you, than i say go for it, just don't get caught.

Megan: HAHAHAHAHA! That was the dumbest thing I ever heard anyone say! I mean of course you're in your body! But that is totally NOT what I meant! Maybe read between the lines, eh? What I meant was that he is interested in your body (breasts ect.) and he just wants to get into your pants. A guy who actually loves you doesn't only love you for your body. If that was the case, he'd leave you if you were in a car accident and your face got messed up. That's not real love.

Eirisa, your case is different because you are an adult. You're not in totally different stages of life.

If you were 16 and your partner 21, he's an adult and you're a teenager. You still have school to go to. He's an adult and may already have a job.

Age is a fucking number..get over it

now if a 25 year old was trying to get with a like 10 year old...THATS FUCKING SICK.

the guys you date should not be any older than 5/6 years any older...mmhmm i don't think so.

Nada your comment made my heart smile my friend...shukran :o)

Rules are made to be broken and I know my situation was different but I can't help but think her's maybe too, There's 5 years difference between not 14 like me and my partner, she needs to learn for herself...but thanks again Nada you kind words warm my heart my friend :o)

Dorotea, but I was 16 when we met, he was 30. I was 17 when I fell pregnant and he was 31. Mind you I was mature for my age, I surely didn't come online asking peoples opinions on my relationship...school and work had nothing to do with it. I still work on a crap wage (okay not that crap but in comparison) and he's raking the finance in, but we are happy. Now I am adult yes at 21 but we have been together a long time, I wasn't always 21. Then again I wasn't aware of his age initially come to think of it, nor was he of mine. But it didn't matter regardless because we knew it was love, the same love is still is today. I think this thread poster will do what she feels is right, I just wanted to share my positive experience with her, I know many people may be against it just as manyof my friends and family were...but true love does prevail :o)

A one night stand is definitly NOT a good idea, I mean seriously you might fall pregnant and the guy is going to leave you with the baby. Is that what you want? If so, go for it. If not, then take our advice. It's definitly not a good idea.

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