an older boy

  • ºCrimsonTearsº
    19 years ago

    First of all, why did your friends get pissed off that you were seeing this guy? And secondly, yeah I think you should tell them. They'd probably find out some other way eventually anyway. At the end of the day it's your decision if you wanna see this guy. You're friends should stand by you no matter what you decide.
    Take care.

  • shes a killer
    19 years ago

    I think that if youe him you should go out with him. 2 of my ex-boyfriends are older than me, i'm 14 and one is 17 and one is 18...they shouldn't care about your relationship or get mad at you b/c it's your life and if they care, they would just advice you to split instead of just getting mad at you.

  • helena
    19 years ago

    Aslong as you dont loose your virginity until YOU are ready i dont see a big problem, your obviously quite mature to say no in the first place and maybe your friends should respect you for that, your boyfriend doesnt sound like a creep as he is not trying to push you into anything? maybe you should tell your friends and ask them to be supportive.. the cant stop you liking someone afterall! take care xxx

  • Dorotea©
    19 years ago

    Well, atleast he isn't an adult, which I almost assumed when I saw the title of the post.

  • Lovemylove
    19 years ago

    Well Hun don't feel bad I'm 15, and I'm enaged to this wonderful man, and he's 20 ok when I told my friends about me & him thinkin about having sex they went competlty nuts. In my opinon you shouldn't tell you friends if their just going to ridcule you in the end.

  • Chynna
    19 years ago

    Why does your friend care about you and the boy going out?Why should you care? If he treats you rite and respects you for your decisions why should the opinion of your friends matter. Although i think your too young for him its your choice. If you like him stick with him.