CAN SOOMEONE ANSWER THIS CLEARLY(bob shank I need you)

Why is it that when you try to give a girl everything, material, and emotional, they betray you, but when you give them nothing, they are loyal?

girls seek some love and shit and want everything to be nice.when u try and give it to them they get spoiled and just spit in your face when they get everything for m you.when u go hard and make them run after you u show them that u are the man ,and they cannot be famous around without a man.ussualy they betray becouse of soemthing they find in someone else that u dont have and use it.a car or money something whats on girlz mind most of the time

It's unfair to say that when you give everything, they reject it....

Maybe the real point is, if you give to much, more than they can return, thats one unbalanced relationship, the girl can't do anything but accept your giving everything and she can't return it.

Giving nothing, only works for relationships which aren't based on love in my opinion.

Also, if you seem like you'd put up with anything, be willing to accept all faults, even betrayal, then though i know alot of girls wouldn't, some would take advantage of that.

bob? where do you learn all this!? u are like the master of this forum!!! u have got so much knowlegde to give and i just wana thank you for sharing it with everyone. u are a true and loyal mind, full of wisdom and i am honoured to hear u speak! take care
xxxLoUxxx

Yeah Bob, you've left me speechless on this one. Well done!

I will say this. Women usually know that they are sat on a gold mine (metaphorically). make what you will with that statement.

"......there aint nothing you can name that is anything like a dame".

Bob=My hero lol

Now I'm not answering this emotionally I am answering this sensibly.
This goes back to the old saying that "good girls" tend to go for the "bad boys". From what I've observed girls seek out "bad boys" because they need somwhere to release their guilty lust. And what I mean by that is that girls are conditioned to being "good girls" and they feel uncomfortable about that desire to have him. Which leads to girls seeking out "bay boys" to satisfy their desires. Being with a "bad boy" makes it okay because he is your accomplice. With him you can be free and let go every once in awhile. Girls don't feel that natural attration to nice guys that treat them to everything, chase them, and kiss up to them. This isn't saying they don't like it. It simply doesn't create a connection with the guy. But it isn't just in girls. Guys do the same thing. Spoiling a guy doesn't convince him to like you. When someone is overly nice to you, your subconscous acts in ways we aren't aware of. And I quote "Being too "nice" sends a signal to the "deep" part of the mind that tells you -this person isn't desirable and is lower status-" People don't desire things they can obtain easily. "Bad boys" often create inviting and intoxicating forms of drama - often perceived as playfulness, sexuality and fun.Think about it....If I ask you about past relationships would you say the reason for being with them was because of the connection you had with them?Now this can be argued with, I'm sure in many ways, but all in all..it makes sense.

-BJ

Mmmmmm, interesting. It's a case of Gentlemen prefer blonds and women prefer twats.

its the whole "playing hard to get" theory...

the thing is, is that guys don't understand the fact that a lot of women just don't like it when guys get them everything, like me, i feel awkward when a guy gets me a rose or a bracelet then that starts making me feel uncomfortable knowing that i don't have anything to give him and knowing the fact that he got me something....also a lot of women like it when guys treat them right and are romantic and have a sexual side to them but not super sexual, maybe those guys are giving women everything that they DON'T want... but tats just my opinion........