My bf broke up with me for my best friend!!! :(

My bf ben broke up with me yesterday and asked my best friend out today... everyone keeps telling me that he said "if i knew kiara wanted to go out with me i would have dumped ashleigh (me) ages ago"... i feel so worthless now, he used me and he was the one i really loved!! kiara gave me a note today saying stuff like i neva wanted him, i walked all ova him and she's like "thats all gonna change now coz he's mine and not urs, you'll neva understand what love is"... but the letter is all backwards, he's the one that used me, he's the one that walked all ova me and lied but i still cant get ova him, i love him so much.. someone plz help coz i really want him bak although he hurt me... (this is the 6th time he dumped me and they were all coz he loves kiara) :(

He's not worth it.

Simple, find somebody who will treat you well and actually love you.

forget about them hun! i know its so hard ad ull be hurting so much rite now but believe me these people never cared about u if they could do this to u! feel lucky the fact taht u have got rid of these two jerks now rather than in years to come!
take care hun and kkeep smiling
xxxLoUxxx

you deserve someone much better! I can't really say I understand how you could want him back....after he dumped you 6 times for your best friend! (and how can you call her your best friend anyway if she does somthin like that to you?) I mean if she really likes him, then she could have tried to explain that to you but "you'll never have him cause he's mine now and you'll never understand what love is"?! that's a rotten thing for anyone to say, I think you deserve a better best friend too. As for the guy, if you really want him back, maybe you should at least act like you don't, maybe then he'll realize what he's missing, you know, like play hard to get? sometimes it works...people always want what they can't have...and if it doesn't work...all I can say is, it just wasn't meant to be. good luck, hope this helped a lil=)
~Christina

oh lordie! I know exactly how you feel. A few years ago i went out with this guy i thought would never like me. But he broke up with me and asked my bestferiend out the same day. She, not thinking anything of it, said yes. I was mad and hurt for a while. Turns out he did like me but he liked my best friend more. But know that ur not alone and that it will get better i promise. and if he broke up with you for her...he wasn't worth it anyway. I know that may be hard to believe but keep telling urself that. U'll believe it sooner or later....buh bye

he's not woth it and you friend is not worth it! if your friend decided to go out with him then tell her F*** you! and him screw him you don't need him exspecialy if he is going to treat you that way.. I hope i was a help to you bye!

screw him. well not in that way. just let him go try to forget about him. there are better guys out there for you that will love you for who you are and not use you. time will help you find the true one. so will destiny. always believe in destiny.

wish him and your friend happiness..if he's such an asshole to you he'll probably end up being the same way for her. be there for her when that happens. be a good friend above all, save face, you've only got one, be mature about the situation. best of luck to you
~*Freak*~

Aww that sucks... :-( I'm sorry to hear that...if im honest he sounds like a bit of an a$$. I know what its like to be used & i know it hurts like hell. Its up to you if you want to remain friends with this girl..i always thought friends were more important than boyfriends/girlfriends though :-S but if hes finished with you 6 times for the same girlie then all u can do is pick yourself up again, prove to him ur strong and that he lost out on you..eventually he'l realize what hes missing...good luck to you xxxx