Does anyone ever think this way or is it just me?

Sometimes when i like a guy i think of all the reasons why i shouldn't I LOOK for reasons. is this just me or do other people do it?

its just u lol or at least i've never heard of ppl doing that

People do it all the time. Your just trying to protect yourself from getting into anything too deep. You look for the disadvantages of liking him and try and convince yourself that hes no good. Because if you like him then its likely you'll get close to him and maybe that scares you a bit? What do you think?

-BJ

this is totally normal, i kinda of do sumthing like that when i'm wif someone that part of my brain just like switches off lol so dont worry to much bout it hun xox sam

dont worrie, your not the only one that feels that way. I feel the same way you do also. And i think I feel that way because i'm afriad to get hurt, so i look for ways not to like that guy.

its normal!!! :)