Help!!! I'm so confused.

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    hey jordon,
    well firstly u need to sort your life out. ur guna have to come off the drugs. u have a child, who is ur responsibility...do u think u can be a good parent when ur high? secondly u need to help ur 'ex' get off the drugs too....this isnt a good environment for your child and her unborn child....i think that when u are both clean then u shud see about working at ur relationship but thats if ur willin to be the father of another mans child and forgive her cheating....u really have got urself into a pickle here mate but u need to look on the brightside and turn ur life around....and then and only then can u look at ur rship issue.
    hope this helps
    xxxLoUxxx

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    hey azreal i think u read it wrong he was taslkin about his three and a half month old child not 13 and 12! sorry
    xxxLoUxxx

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    azreals right....u need to concentrate on gettin ur life back together in order to help out ur son :) his happiness is your happiness ...and your happiness is his happiness too...n dont forget that....hes needs a strong supportive dad around to sculpt him into the man he'll become in years to come and im sure u want whats best for him....so in conclusion get as much help as you can with the drugs and cutting, possibly speak to a councellor and also get help with looking after ur son...its a two person job at least as we all need a break at times! hope this helps u out
    xxxLoUxxx

  • Catty
    19 years ago

    well this is tricky because you have a son who is gonna need a mother. But then again the child doesn't need to be around a couple who doesn't get along exept when yall are high because it sets a bad example for ur child. And if she got pregnant by someone else....thats not a good sign