help...this sucks

ok well, this is one long ass story but to summarize it all up is this: I'm 17 I've been knowing this guy since 8th grade which is what 4 years? ya 4. ok well we stopped talking for a loooooong time but started again last summer. Now he's all in love with me again. And even though I never stopped caring about him, I don't know if I love him. But when we talk and we hang up I find myself telling him, "I Love You." And I know it's wrong to say i do if i really don't but i'm just so confused. What it is to i think is that i'm so hooked on my ex that i can't really LET myself love this other guy. UGHH...so confusing...this sucks...any advice?
~the ultimately ♥ЀâĎ Ģίя└♥~

hey there!
well as uve said ur really hoooked on ur ex which is something u need to try and get over. as for the 'i love u' thing i think u must feel natural to say it even tho u dont mean it...mayb ur unconciously sayin it so he'll say it bk? so u can hear those words?when ever ur leaving the convo make sure u dont say it anymore and if he says it just say bye.....if he asks y u dint say the same bk then u gota tell him....tell him 'i know ive said it before but ive real;ised that even tho i care about u loads, im not actually in love with you, as i need time to get over my ex'
i think he shud understand...email me...hope this helps
xxxLoUxxx

i reckon ur need ot get over ur ex, do you liek this guy?? hope with him?? enjoy life, screw the moral value of it, who really follows the rules?? do wat you want to do, if you tell him you love him let him believe it, it'll make him feel brilliant however if it is really bothering you talk to him, tell him you odnt THINK (always put hink cause that way theres an elemnt of doubt) that you dunt love him, simple as!

lol, hope ive helped, love nikki

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