Gay Marriages!?

To each his own.

Hmmm.....well we are all humans aren't we? And why should gay people lose the right to marry the person they love? Isn't that promoting discrimination and inequality? So I say yes, gay marriages should be allowed.

Nicely said.

Thank you :)

as one who is part of the gay community, I definitley(sp?) want gay marraige to be allowed.

I can't truly explain everything that proves my point...but there really is no difference between the love between heterosexual's and homosexual's. besides the fact that we can't have babies.
but, there are so many babies in the world right now, I don't think that will be a problem.

I really hate the fact that people will think differently of me because of my sexual preference. I wish that they would take the chance to get to know me...because I honestly am not that different from anyone else. If anything...I'm stronger and perhaps wiser. Being through all the shit people put me through because of who I am has shown me that I can't trust everyone. My relationships and friendships have gotten much stronger because I know who I can trust and who I can't.

thank you ismail...you don't know how much that means, especially since i just got back from being extremely tipsy. my head really hurts from thinking too much.

I really mean thanks ismail...I admire you on this site...you, Nada and the wolf pack all have great points and opinions and make this forum worth while.

Yeah, I'd like to be able to marry a guy or girl when I get around to it. Tho some cultures are against it and I respect their opinion.

RYAN is bi? asexual? huh....that's new.....Well I think oyu can marry who you want. I wrote a poem about this read it when you like...anyway Love is love. That's what I feel....

Jesi again you say something stupid ever notice that christians are not as big as they use to be they are adapting to the world around them you should join in you homophobe.

I'm a Satanist. Happily we are not egotistic.
Brittney you seem like the odd understandable Christian.

Most Christians are like "you don't believe burn in hell bitch."
I think I used the wrong word your the first Christian I've meet that has not tried to make me join your religion. You actually understand how some things work outside your religion.

Jesi oh, man this is what I met in the other thread, you keep your eyes closed she'll keep hers open. Good day.

He's 13....

Your attitude is what were talking about you dumb ass.

Happy my religion believes we're the gODs.

u and ur is not words and it does make sense she is saying she is going to prove how idiotic you are.

Lmao, why is it that most thirteen year olds' have the same attitude?

Thanks for enlighten me, I never had that attitude tho. That's why I asked.

i'm gay and i say yea y shud we not have the rights of 'straights'? i mean not letting gay marriages is jus promoting segregation.

Britt your saying people should have the right to live how they want right? To have their own rules, to believe in what they wish?

So why, then, do you not let Jesi state her opionions without calling her an "idiot"

because her opinion is that she has to force her religion on other people.

her opinion is that I can't marry the person I love becuase of HER god.

and, anyways, britt has an opinion too, and her opinion is that jesi is an idiot. I share that opinion with her.

oh ok well thats kool. we can all have our opinions, but the difference between britt and jesi is that Jesi doesnt call Britt nasty names to get her point across.

Well nothing we debate about will change what people believe in, so renee u can side with britt, and obv i'll be agreeing with jesi as i think she has the most sensible point here, WITHOUT throwing insults.

I agree, throwing insults isnt always the best thing, but sometimes thats the only way we can get the image through some peoples heads.

I think thats kool that jesi doesnt need to use nasty names (i don't think idiot is that nasty though) to get her point across. It's just the fact that I feel hated when people are against my preferences and they try to take my privileges away. I dont think thats their place.

Of course u dont, thats perfectly fine :) I am not saying i want to do that, and personaly i dont think there is anything from with people being Gay. I dont believe its natural, but i DO believe that if you love someone, you love someone and nothing should go against that. The only thing i am against is Gay marriages, and thats only because i know two gorgeous little girls with two mums who get extremely bullied because of their Mums. So due to personal experiances i am against gay marriage.

BUT i think if Gay marriages were to take place without children it would be a lot more accepted in our society.

However, this is simply my opionion and i dont expect you to agree or disagree with it, i just expect you to respect that fact that i have one.

ok thats cool.

I'm glad we could have this arguement/discussion -whatever you wanna call it- on good terms. I respect your opinion.

and i completely respect yours! :)

wasnt talking to u

I didn't read all the threads, but I am still going to give my opinion.

I think anyone should be able to marry whoever they want, and as I see some people already said, everyone is human and everyone gets feelings for someone else, and no one can help who those feelings are for. You can't tell someone to fall in love with someone they don't want to. If a gay guy falls in love with another guy, you can't tell him to stop and fall in love with a girl. Same as if a straight person loved one girl, and his friend told him he should love a different girl...I know that doesn't happen very often...but the point is, you can't stop loving someone and you can't force yourself to love someone. That's NOT how it works.
Anyone should be able to marry whoever they want, male and male, male and female, or female and female. It shouldn't matter. Religion shouldn't even get in the way.
I know everyone has their own opinons, but I think it's stupid, or well, not fair to judge someone because of who they love. I think if it doesn't involve you, ignore it and don't let the people who are involved be shunned, let them be and stay away from them if it bothers you so much.

I think that's a decent response, probably not but I'll stick with it.

-Mortalidaga

wow i completely respect all u just said mort :)

and i was simply saying tht i am only against it because of the children. Having two mums or two dads, I know 2 beautiful girls who are so bullied because of this, and i think its unfair. But ur right, noone can change who they love. :)

love to ya

Thanks Georgi...

Ya I know it would seem weird for the kids, but they would get used to it, don't you think?

I know a two girls, one has her parents divorced because her father is gay, and I thinkhe's married, or planning on it? And she's normal...

And the other girl, her mother is a lesbian, her father left them, and she's completely normal to, she's really happy..It's almost the same...there's just no extra baby-making. *shrugs*

yeah i suppose. u make some really good points :)

Maybe its just the girls i know who get bullied. Personally though i dont think its fair for the children, this is just my opinion but i think young children need a secure environment with a father and mother figure. But i suppose two woman or two men could do that too :)

And i also understand Jesi's point of view as Christian teachings say that marriage is for companionship and should last forever, as it creates a secure environment for children to be brought up in. That may be one of the reasons Jesi is so against it. maybe?

Im glad to hear that the girls you know are happy Mort
xxxxxx

Mort one question why is it that you say the dad's left?

Oh, I made it look like he left them...I didn't mean it like that, I meant that she was lesbian so they got apart and the mother got custody...that's what I meant..sorry...
Or maybe he left because he was against lesbians...but I don't think so, I don't know =S I'll ask her about it when I get a chance...

im glad we could discuss something without arguing, you have really earnt my respect mort :)

But I don't understand that point Georgi, There cna be companionship and a long lasting relationship brought up between a woman and a woman and between man and man...and it can be a secure environment for children. It's all what the parents do. A man and woman can hold a worse relationship then a man and man maybe, depends on how they act (eg. do drugs, alcohol)...

And thanks Georgi...I try my hardest lol.

yes thats true. I mean, if the woman and woman are willing to act as "mother and father".

But i believe that there should be one of each sex. A growing child needs security, and although man and man or woman and woman can provide that, what they cant provide is the childs natural needs for mother and father.

With it being 21st century I think are culture has evolved past that, and when the kids ask that dreading question why don't I have a mother/dad. If the parents handle it well, there shouldn't be a problem.

Understandable, I can accept that fact...for if a boy was raised by woman and woman he would turn out, erm, more "girly" I suppose you could say...but even if there was just a male relative (in that situation I named) that would be like a father to the boy...then all would work out...or like you said, one act as father and one act as mother...But it can be done either way...and why should anyone stop it if they are willing to do it?

yeah true. But only if the parents are cut out for something like that. In the case that i know, they weren't. and thats the only reason i am against it. But i guess i am being a little small minded, and i think you both make great points.