help with.."friends with benefits"

well there is such thing as liking eachother but not going out. I don't think he is using you to makeout but if it doesn't go anywhere once summer is over...u might want to re-think it...

whether its "bad" or not is strictly an opinion...but let me tell you from experience...friends with benefits is NOT a good idea. one of you could develop feelings for eachother again and then your heart could be broken because the other person will still go around messing with other people. he's most likely using you because he knows he can do that crap with you and not have to worry about the things that come with a girlfriend...

i'd do this...tell him you dont wanna make out and stuff unless he wants to go out with you, and if hes ok with that, then you know he cares for you and that he's really your friend. if he gets angry and refuses to be your friend anymore than you know he only wanted you for the 'benefits'.
take care
Sara

i agree wi sara shes right....i dont have anything against friends with benefits if thats all it it but usually feelings are invloved n ppl get hurt!
xxxLoUxxx