First Ex's

Have you ever relized that the first guy you went out with is the guy you love for ever. yea we say were over them but as soon as we hear that they got a new gf and are comitted to her its liek why couldnt i have been better so he woulda been comitted to stay wit me?!?!?! ITS ALWAYS THE FIRST LOVE OF YOUR LIFE THAT LEAVES THE DEEPEST WOUNDS

Deepest wound or fondest memories?

It's the first time you get truly CRUSHED by a loved one that leaves the deepest, infected, incurable wound in my experience.

My first real love makes me smile every time I think about her.

Yeah, and your first love is the one you won't forget. Ever.

Brett Higgins:

That was spot on.

or, you will go to them.

things dont always just happen, you have to make them happen.

Not all first relationships are good. I could tell you about mine but it wont turn out good. IF you get crushed with your first boy and you still love him then it could be an expirence to learn from...trust me

Not with me the first guy I dated was nothing but a ass espcially after he moved back the 2nd, and 3rd time. He is the last person I would ever love.

And there you have it. Everyone is different, we have different experiences and draw on them later in life, either a fond reminiscence or lesson learned , not to be repeated.

ye on my side ,my ex was my 1st love but i was her 2nd ,i broke up with her becouse she kept on talking about her ex bf ,and how he is better than me :( he is lucky i didnt see him during this time

yea i'm happy wen i think of him but id be hapier if i was the gurl in his life and the one he was comitted to.

thats for sure i caould never ever forget him.

i have gone to him tho and i told him how i feel. but its liek he doesnt want to go threw it again b cuz there have been times were i almost had him back than he liek pushes me away again and it sux!

i think i am simalair to ur ex (chuk) i dont speak about my ex to my bfs but in my head i compare them to him. i kno thats prolli sounding so stupid but i cant help it

Haha I could never forget mine. I was 13 and he was 19. He's mainly a secret, and then I look back at all my fond memories and wonder where he is right now because he left randomly.
I could never forget him. Or not get jealous of his wife. All because of those stupid painfull three words.

Yea, it wasn't my first bf, but he was my first love. It didn't work for us though, we were just one of those couples who were good together and wanted to make it work just couldn't and i do have to say i don't still love him now, but i love what we had and i wish i could be with him then, but we have both changed so much now. He still likes me, i just can't get back on that road. I loved what we had, who he was, but not who he is now. I still care about him alot and were really good friends.

That is so true...For me at least. I broke up with him...And I made the biggest mistake in my life. If I could turn back time...My mistake would be the one I would erase. I see him everyday...and the longing shows in both of our eyes...Yet he has his girl and I have my man. We are on different paths now, and still connected by the heart.