for the guys out there....i've got a question!!!!

in my oponion. truth > everything. in other words, tell him what you've just said.

i know im not a guy but i gota say tell him everything that u've just said...be truthful with him...tell him ur not ready for a rship and wana sort ur life out...but dont make him think hes got a chance...also this guy does sound like a jerk n only wants u for sex if he keeps sayin he wants to get into ur pants! a quick slap round the face wouldnt go a miss either hehehe ;) kiddin
take care xxxLoUxxx

Tell him the truth.

I'd prefer that to any rephrasement of the same message.

If you say it nice he wont believe you.

just tell him to fuck off!

If he says he wants to get into your pants like that it doesnt sound like he only wants you for that.. which may be fine with you.. or not

Say the truth..."I need some time to pull myself together and think about a lot of things...But if I ever change my mind you'd be the first to know."

oh...wait thats not good =/