QUESTION OF THE DAY!!

i guess, it's more privacy to do it in the dark.. (so others won't get to see the excitement under the blanket) also, u don't need to see the guy's Ding Dong to get excited... there are such thing as touch & feel.. i've never been kissed before, so i dunno whether i'll open/close my eyes.. =) for a blow kiss, of course, open eyes to see who i'll blow the kiss to.. =)

i think the reason people have sex in the dark is prob cos they are concerned about how they look and are slightly embarassed so they dont want their partner to see....i myself wana see what im gettin! thats the bigest turn on is his bod...just have to sacrafice fact that he has to see mine but hey u win some u loose some...but lights ON PLEASE!

also think people close their eyes to kiss so they are fully concentrain on the kiss...so nothing thats happenin around em can distract em..e.g ppl wandering by, traffic etc...

well theres my opinion :D

xxxLoUxxx

sex in the dark?
i guess its more of a comfort issue...like sometimes people are comfortable with touching but not looking yet. plus i guess it would be like exploring eachother b/c you cant see anything...you'd rely on your other senses.

some people close their eyes just to relax if they're nervous, but if its a really deep, passionate, kiss a lot of ppl close their eyes because they're in heaven so to speak.

Um probaley because they feel insecure about their own bodies, and don't want there lover to see what they look like.

hi ashley & clarissa! =) yes, i've never been kissed by a guy (mouth2mouth) i save my first/last kiss to my last bf-husband hihihi.. kiss on the cheek doesn't count right? *left wink*

wow most of the people here can't even wait til marriage for sex...you're gonna wait for your first kiss? that takes a lot and its awesome. it'll be really special.

Losing the sense of sight allows you to focus on other sensations, especially touch.

Insecurities come way down the list unless you're fickle of course. if you love someone and you accept eachother for who you are you won't care how the other looks.

i like the dark because it can feel like a mystery to me of what they look like, but i can imagine in my mind what the look like with the way i touch him, and it just darkness with another guy is a big turn on for me

and i kiss with my eyes closed because i feel it, the connection, and the kiss its self, and id prbly go cross sided trying to look at the guy so close

I automatically close my eyes when I kiss. Even my first kiss was with my eyes closed. It's just an automatic reaction.