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Hello fellas. I have a question from a girl that aint too pretty. (even check my xanga x.x www.xanga.com/snarf_otaku) I want to know how the heck can you get a guy to look at the inside and not the out. Also how do you get a guy that used to like you, but you denied your true feelings out of fear?
Ah, I'm hopeless, I wanted to get back in a relationship so my ex would leave me be and so that I could have a fun summer.
Thanks..