i have a serious question here, and i really need advise

sorwie, i can't help you, cuz i've never been kissed.. maybe if you watch a movie, u'll see how people kiss & u can take notes.. =)

Um..well keep ur eyes closed is one thing. I can't really give you advice, but when it happens just go with the flow. As for your tongue, you can choose whether to use it or not, but you just "play" with ur partners tongue. HEY!!! you could kiss my bf because hes like the best kisser, and our first kiss i shall always remember. Lol sorry I haven't been very helpful xx

Ok. Here's some advice.
When kissing the guy, hold onto him. Put your arms around his neck, hold his shirt, or put your hand through his hair. Don't be rough, be gentle when kissing him. And don't open your mouth too far, otherwise it'd be a mess.
That's the advice I Was given; Im just passing it on.

Problem is everybody prefers to kiss differently.

Me and Tracie do it like open mouthed pufferfish :p

Where as when i kissed Colin he half eats me o.O

Just keep your eyes closed, reach in and let the lips do the deciding.

once you start open mouth kissing, you can decide tongue or not and if you decide to, things will just fit. everyone's different so just go with what he does. whatever you do, DONT think about it too much or you'll get too nervous. the main thing is to relax, and go with the flow.

just go with the flow...do what feels natural....altho few tips would be...
1. dont open ur mouth really wide and engulf him cos believe me its no fun wipeing the slava off ur eyebrows after a snog!
2. no biting....make sure u dont chew off his tongue also unplesant
3. hold the guy close like Shædow Poet said....run ur hands thru his hair or down his bk or pinch his bum or something..u dont wana be just stood there motionless with ur lips moving!
4. MOST IMPORTANTLY be urself....do what u feels rite...there is no right or wrong way of kissing so just close ur eyes and enjoy..dont worry ull be a pro in no time, practise makes perfect ;)

xxxLoUxxx

ya i agree with emily
i've never had my first kiss either but i read the relationship stuff for tips and i'll tell you what i have read...
you said you want to know what to do with your tongue well this is my answer.
1.unless the guy uses his tongue just kiss on the lips and you will see how your partner reacts and then once you build in relationship or you've kissed enough times that you feel comfortable then you can use your tongue and if you want to use your tongue...i cant help you
2.if your partner has kissed before then he will know what to do and he will lead...just do what he does

and there you go!!!:P
hope i helped

Um .I don't thikn anyone can really tell you 'how to kiss' because everyone has their own way of kissing lol ... but just do not open your eyes /keep them open because that's just freaky ....

OK, I sifted through 60 pages to find my advice on kissing. You can all thank me later ;)

From "Kissing Question":

Pay attention kids I'm about to do you all a favour.
This applies to boys kissing girls as well.

A lot of the whole kissing thing is in the build up; the subconcious body language not the actual kiss at all.

Get all close and cuddly, DO NOT go straight for the kiss.

Use fleeting eye contact, a few seconds at a time. Look away to the sides or preferrably down toward his chest (Never look up).

Whisper something in his ear... what you say is unimportant, be it you find him sexy to pass me my pencil case... doesn't really matter, something suggestive but indirectly sexy is preferrable.

As you go to whisper in his ear lightly brush his skin with your nose, catch his jaw, his ear lobe, his cheek. Very soft so that you're barely touching.

Run a finger down the edge of his ear, down the neck, use a really light touch. Run you hand through his hair (if he's not got a ton of gel on).

Breathe warmly into his ear as you speak.

If you are holding his hand run your finger tips over his PALM, not the back of his hand. Follow lines, creases and along the fingers.

He should be primed and ready... but do it for a good five minutes (it is an idea to have a topic prepared. A romantic movie you want to see, a new tight top or something simple like how your days have gone). Small talk, big talk, whatever... just talk.

You'll now be able to ram a loo brush down his neck and he'll still love it.

The whole point is preparation, enticement and seduction. You girls love sexual foreplay, right? Well even with guys sensual foreplay is important as well even though most of us lads don't know it.

Signs that it is working:

His head will tilt slightly towards yours or backwards.

He'll run his hand through his hair or touch his nose.

He'll touch you.

He'll laugh or crack a joke.

See how it goes.

Bert

yeah when i had my first kiss i didnt really have any advice i just kinda went with the flow as long as you dont miss their mouth or drool your fine. just dont worry bout it and every time u kiss it will get better.

Do what feels natural. This is a way that you tell a guy you care for him and love him. Be your sweet self. ^_^

let him do the work if he really wants it he will figure it out ! so no worries!!!dont let it bother you when it happens it happens!!!!!!! and if it dont it dont!!!!!