HOW DO I GET OVER HIM??????????????????

  • Lovemylove
    19 years ago

    Its really hard to move on, espically if you were or still are in love with him.I'm sorry I can't offer much help except just look forward to the fact that you'll find your true love someday.

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    19 years ago

    I've been trying for at least 3 years to get over the boy I love. It's not easy and no one can tell you how to. I'm sorry.

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    people arent really goin to tell u exaclty HOW to get over someone...there are no instructions telling u what u must or must not do. the best ideas would be to fill ur days with doin stuff with mates or really concentrate on ur studies. try n fill ur life with everything so uhave little time to think o ur ex. try puttin urself out there...see new guys. they'll be fallin over their feet in no time :D
    xxxLoUxxx

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    It's easier than most people think.

    You need to concentrate on things that you do not associate with him.

    Buy some new clothes, so you can't think "I wore this when we went to *insert event here*"

    Buy an album you've never heard before.

    Change your hairstyle.

    Whatever it is just make sure it's not associated with him so you can start a new chapter in your life.

    It's not fool proof but it certainly helps.

    B

  • Ashley Daniels
    19 years ago

    I dumped my bf in March and it has taken me until now to somewhat get over him. Im still not comletly over him but im working on it. What you need to do is find someone else that you like and concentrate on him and it will help cause you wont be thinking of him.

  • ~ღ~ jeSSica ~ღ~
    19 years ago

    i agreed with B's methods of moving-on..

    these are some of my ways:

    listening to love songs/break-up songs
    music always works for me, music helps soothe my feelings...

    talking to a friend-or sister.. they're always a good target for conversation..

    writing love poems/stories.. find something to do: coloring, painting, drawing (ARTS) crafting, reading, watching a movie..

    i wish u lived near me.. i would show u how to do origami (paper folding.. i can fold a piece of paper into different form of hearts, cranes (bird), and other cute stuffs)

    ~remember this.. just think of moving-on as: HIS LOST!! HE DOESN'T KNOW WHAT HE'S MISSING OUT ON! you deserve better, and i hope u'll find someone *special* to make you happy! =)

    good luck!!

  • LeRiSsA
    19 years ago

    ok, Bret i guess its easy for you to get over ppl if you do it like that, cause i'v done all that stuff, and i don't see a change, every face i see still reminds me somehow of him so yeah

  • Corrie
    19 years ago

    the only way to move on from sumbody that u loved... well first of all you have to WANT to, knowing that, thats whats best for you or for him or for both of you , whatever {i dont really know the sitch.} and secondly, u have to COMPLETELY remove urself from him, i mean, hanging out in group dates at the mall or movies, no hugs goodbye, no phone calls no letters, no text messaging, no instant messenger... nothing, and trust me i KNOW how hard that is, especially if u love him...because, those feelings that u have will never go away if ur still in constant contact with him, and still thinking about him, and talking to im, and if ur still involved in his life, and his feelings and stuff, you know?? it'll take a while, but give it time... i had to do it too, and it took at least about 3 months, those were sum of the hardest months of my life, cuz i couldnt even look at him! i had to ignor his phone calls, and i would delete his messages b4 i even heard them, i felt evil doing it, but i knew its what i needed to do for my own sake, and for his... but i seriousl hope you get everything worked out!! if u ever wanna talk, im here, and i'll try my bet to understand, and listen!! oh, and DONT get another bf until ur completely over him, becaue thats not fair to the new guy, he wouldnt have all your attention and stuff, you know? but anyways, i hope i helped a little bit! ttyl! *KISSES*~Corrie

  • Emily
    19 years ago

    How to move on....how about how to get him back?

  • ~ღ~ jeSSica ~ღ~
    19 years ago

    you don't! just move-on.. get another guy..

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    Never go back, history repeats.

    As I said in my first post, it's not a fool proof method, but for many it does work because the change in routine gives you a new focus, free of the guy, or girl, you're trying to get over.

    Also you have to be patient, it doesn't happen over night.

  • Erica Brown©
    19 years ago

    Kill him. Muhahaha.
    No just kidding don't it's too messy.
    But to get over him.. find some other average joe.
    Or get him back tell him of your feelings.
    But first..
    Stop with the caps..