why is it so hard

i think first u should take a minute to just stop relax and think about the situation. u are talking about what everyone else thinks and u if u really love him u shouldnt worry about that. they didnt call it falling in love for nothing. its going to hurt....but for it to actually be something that is going to work u both have to be willing to commit. talk to him, dont wait around. if u wait too long it could be too late..trust me. make him understand that u guys WILL have problems..get used to it, everyone does, just tell him that u are willing to be there for every moment of it. stand by him, if u love him, give him a chance to explain, then talk, LISTEN, and then make plans. trust me....its not going to be easy..but thats love...good luck *Val*

i think it's easy for me to move-on cuz he's the one that has a change-of-heart first... his lost! he doesn't know what he's missing out on.. =)