Urge to cut..

  • Nicole Maree
    19 years ago

    I use to be a cutter and sometimes i just have this urge where i just want to cut so i can feel pain. but it's so hard because i know that i promised my best friend i wouldn't. But it's so hard because it's easier said then done. I just don't know how to deal with wanting to...Because when i don't i just get angry with everyone around me and often hurt them because of my mood...If anyone has any advice please help

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    19 years ago

    I also promised my best friend I would stop, so when I get th urge to I just think about how much it would hurt her, and how I would be beaking her trust etc.

    You could try going out for a walk, or try something that takes your mind off things.

  • Nicole Maree
    19 years ago

    When I do get the urge i think of my best friend how much i hurt him last time. But thanks for your advice. I'ts hard but i'll try that.

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    19 years ago

    I know it's hard, but that's all I cant hink of this early in the morning. I may come back later with more advice but at the moment I'm still asleep.

  • Nicole Maree
    19 years ago

    you don't have to get mean to other people. I have seen stupid posts in here like one asking how do u cut yourself.....some people have a problem and need advice in what they can do instead of resorting to that. so maybe you should take a chill pill and stop being mean some of us are sensitive about this kind of thing

  • Nicole Maree
    19 years ago

    you shouldn't be so mean about this kind of thing. some people have an actual problem with it and need advice on how to stop or what they can do to not to resort to it. i have seen worse post about someone asking what do u use to cut....thats just ridiculous. maybe you should take a chill pill because some people are sensitive about this kind of thing

  • Nicole Maree
    19 years ago

    yeah i realised that today i was thinking what i wrote. i just don't want to go back to my old ways and i needed advice from someone different other than my friends

  • Nicole Maree
    19 years ago

    lol yeah i forgive you......don't worry i think the whole thing scares lots of people

  • lauren
    19 years ago

    ya woooo that exact thing hapens with me and my boyfriend when somin that im not gonna say happens and i hgave this huge urg to cut i beg him and stuff and then he comes to my house and holds me til im all better! :)

  • lauren
    19 years ago

    i think bloody tears is right