Advice..?

"wants time" usually is a nice way of saying I'm not sure if I still feel the same way about the relationship. That's what it means if I use that term. You don't know though everyone is different. Sorry I hope she meant something different.

sorry to tell you my friend if you were truly soulmates the feeling would be the same on both sides.. I know how you feel but if it ment to be it will be.. we can't do anything about that. you are young you should be having the time of your life before you get in the real world and have to work most of your day away.. just what I think... and my thoughts are not worth more then the words that are typed on this page...... Take care RONIN

i need time general means shes trying to amke a decision and she doesnt know waht to pick. she obviously confused about her feelings for you at the moment and needs to think it all through but try asin her to be honest with you...u deserve that much at the least....also can i ask you what you thik to long distance rships...ive just recently got into one and wana know what its like in the long run...please email me at little_riot_24@hotmail.com when u have time

take care
xxxLoUxxx

You are the master of your own destiny and you should choose for yourself, not allow allow others to choose where your life is going.

If she is being indecisive make the decision for her.

A couple of questions to ask yourself

Is she worth waiting for?
Will she do this again (and again)?
Is she worthy of YOUR time.
Would you treat someone like this and would you find it acceptable?

Hard questions to ask and answer honestly, but are you spend your life hanging around for someone or are you going to be assertive and take charge?

Bravo, Bret, bravo.

Life is just a series of choices. Do you choose to sit idley by and possibly let her leave? Or do you choose to confront your fears and make her want to stay?

If she hadn't have broken up with you, you would have most certainly dumped her. She was being pro-active to save herself the embarrasment of being chucked.

Same result, different route. You're better off for the conclusion, believe me.

I am sorry to hear that she cheated on you. I have always believed once a cheater always a cheater. I have always been faithful in relationships. My sons father cheated on me and I was crushed. I would have never thought he would do that. It's hard for me to trust now.
I agree with your statement earlier about being honest. I have only said something to that effect once. I didn't feel the same way he did but I still cared for him. I didn't want to hurt him I ended up telling him the truth. We were engaged so it was a difficult thing to do.
You deserve to be treated with respect. Someone who would say you're not good enough in my opinion is cold hearted.

You'll be negative for a good while yet, fella, don't feel the need to apologise.

You can be totally devoted, but only ever to someone totally devoted to you.

Know this: You're too good to be cheated on. You're Ken Kimber and you deserve a damned good healthy dose of respect. If someone truly was your soul mate she would never treat you with such disdain.