really important to me girls answer plsssss

look , here comes one story i have left in my life long way in the past .i broke up with my ex gf ,i really loved her ,and i still do .this was a rainy day i came to pick her up without my car ,no ambrealla ,i stayed outside in rain and was waiting for her.She came out ,a fast kiss and then she asked me what is wrong ,i told her that we have to break up and be friends for best of us ,i cant take any bs from her anymore (i didnt say that but thats what i felt ) i grabed her hand slowly and left few papers in it ,i said goodbye and turned around and left ,all i heard she said was "ok".(in her hand was her poems that she wrote to me long time ago about her feelinggs to me ) feelings that was lie .....

u will prob ask me why did i break up with her if i loved her .the reason is that she was all in her past with her ex bf .she used to tell me she forgot about him ,later on i found out she was calling him right after i called her at night ... she said she was all alone and felt like shit and no one needs her,i was with her all the time her happy days and sad days ...but when her friends were coming she never called me to tell me that she was going out with them ,when i asked why ,she said its her friends and its not my business to worry about her when she is with her friends (this friends were her ex bf best friends ).later on she started to act more distant from me i felt less attention to me .i am not gonna go over the rest its personal ,but its just some bs relationship i had with her ...

ok here is the new problem in present ,my firends are friends with her (my ex gf) they call her whenever we go somewhere .she acts like she cant stand me i cant describe it ,whenever i say something not even to her ,sometimes i her her mumbling something what i said and turn around ,or she just starts talking to somewhen when i talk .like she doesnt give a shit about what i say ,i never do something liek this ,i donno why she does it ,if u girls can understand her tell me why she does it ..i really need the answer i feel like one day i will just tell her something bad for what she keeps doing ....

damn i really wrote a lot sorry, i never write so much ,btw mind my mistakes i was in the hurry and i type really fast

il be back later to check it out ,going out and i think she lbe there again :(((((((

You don't need a girl's advice any more than a man's. Also you did the right thing despite your personal feeling for her.

One solution is quite simple, but not a certainty.

With all your friends present, when she is being typically bitchy stop EVERYTHING.

Stand up to her and ask what what her problem is in a very calm and open manner.You should ask her something along the lines of 'Yes, we split up and it was shitty, but it's done and over with and it's time to move on. I still like you enough to be your friend and unless you have a major problem with someone you once had feelings for can you stop being so rude please?'

If she gets more bitchy..

'If you can't be mature enough to be civil then honestly, you're not the person I thought you were.'

This should be enough to make her see the light, or at least realise that she is looking stupid in front of your friends. If not, then at least you tried to address the situation in a mature manner.

Now, this isn't fool proof and it could blow up in your face and cost your friendship with her and/or the group but sometimes you have to make a stand, even in the face of the consequences.

nala ,u said he was hurt just as you ,who u mean by that? if her ex bf ,then he was just away in other state ,so she hooked up with someone so she wount be lonely ,and when it was time for him to come back she was looking foa way to end the realtionship.plus its like half a year has passed when we broke up ,its not the problem of me getting over it,i already did and forgot everything bad that happened ,the problem is that we are "friends " and chillin together ,but why act like i am no one ,ask a question to everyone and listen to an answer from everyone else and when ustart talking just interupt ,she has no feelings for me ,i didnt hurt her when i broke up ,since she loves her ex bf .My question is why do you act like this,i am not bothering her ,not calling and crying on the phone asking to come back ,she never hears about me ,the only time she sees me is when we hang out all together ,and this shit happence ,she never was like that

breat .... u also gave a nice way to find an answer for my question .but i beleve for all the time we havent talked ,i might say a lot shit that will make her cry ,and i am not someone who will make a girl cry.but i beleve i will try it once i get a chance , i got nothing to loose ,no friendship ,love ,respect ,i dont care (i cared way to much about her in the past )

jessica why havent u responded, i also wanna hear your opinion on this please

oo i have a lot of them ,but there is 2 things , they all about the love ,and personal one ,2nd they all on my language ,i can try and translate it but they will not rhyme , and will not look so good ,but i can try

i rather chat on AIM with you to discuss about ur problem.. =) i want to be there for u.. *wink*

hehe ,some of my friends who read my poems call me romeo

ye thats the point of their dumb joke ,they just dont understand some things thats all

new york, brooklyn , and you

ye i heard u girls need some man there

btw we can chat on aim or w/e msnger u got there ,to easy our discussion

roger that

hey!! i think this gurl needs a gud kick up the ass no offence. shes treating you like shit and your letting her!!!!! she hurt you and you have the right to be shitty with her!

did u explain her everything u told us?

lets see,

she is probably acting like this because you broke up with her. she probably want you to know the fact that she's mad at you about that, but don't feel sorry for that, cause a lot of my friends will do that to there boyfriends so just basically act like you don't hear her and talk over her when she is trying to interupt while your talking or maybe just say something about it to her and ask her what her problem is. it's not your fault she is acting the way she is! -Rachel-

plez dont give up on luv just yet plez i think i have and its killen me so don't be like me, and you may hav luved her but if ur still not togher then ur not meant 2 be but i doint know what i really can do 2 help u im sorry but plez dont give up on luv

I think she's doin it because she cant stand to be with you without actually going out with you. She is giving you comments and stuff to try and convince herself that she doesn't like you. You breakin up wit her and yea for a good reason probably hurt her more than you or her could realisexx