DOES NE ONE ELSE FEEL THIS WAY?

Tell them straight from the outset that you want friendship, not a relationship. If you're looking for a boyfriend tell them you're looking for a companion and not sex. That will sort the men from the boys immediately.

why would i say i am a nice guy ,if everyone knows it already :P,anyway i am moving to your state ,since u are short on men ,il be working for 2 men

I had this problem for a while, and by the way, I also live in Oregon...and finally I was so sick of it that when my friend asked me to have sex with him....I turned it around and asked him why it was so important? I said...if the only way we're going to be friends is if I have sex with you then you're not worth being friends with...

It might seem rude, and it might seem cruel, but you and he has to realize that you're worth more than just a casual sex partner