I don't get MEN!?

I hate it when guys do this. I think its because they don;t like seeing girls cry or get upset and that may be why he didn't tell you.

yeah true, i think it was more cowardly that he did it that way. he probably didn't say goodbye cause he was to scared too, guys always seem to hurt us girls...it's just not fair

what you should do to cheer yourself up is do something for yourself. Like treat yourself to something....if i have a bad day i have frozen yoghurt lol its my little treat just for me......but i guess sometimes these things don't work ya just got to try and smile and carry on with life

this may be harsh, but I think he may of been after just a little bit of fun. He probably doesn't want attatchments, nor does he feel the same way as you...
it's the only explanation I can think of.

Yes, harsh... But almost ALL men do this. At least the ones I know. Don't sweat it. If he's a jerk, get over him and find a new guy who really cares about you and is intersted in more than just a hookup.

y'all should read our discussion on NICE guys. there are some of us out there still. "Why does everything seem lost?" thas our discussion topic. -Mike

yeah i agree with a lot with what some of these people have said....he may have just been after a good time....so he probably seemed nice but maybe he's just a player