TOO YOUNG TO LOVE

I never believed that the point of dating was to find the person you want to spend your life with. i have had several long relationships but now i found a guy and i believe we are ment to be together. he is who i want to spend my life with. but im still in high school. is that too young. cuz everyones talking is making me doubt.

You can fall in love at any age, I truly believe that.

My friends parents got together at 14 years old and 30 years later they are still together.

Don't let anyone tell you what you should feel. Only you will know if it's true love.

Best wishes.

You can fall in love at any age, don't listen to other people thoughts about your not in love, if you know in your heart that you are in love then you are.Listen to your heart.

I agree with Crimson Tears. Age doesn't matter.

i do believe love can be found a a young age its just most people arent actually in love...like the above said, its likely to be basic infatuation cos its likly to be the first closeness people have felt....however if u are in love then go for it. nothings stoppin u...just follow ur heart, itll lead u right in the end.

im ready to risk anything it takes and so is he. honestly we have made so many changes in the short time we have known each other. for ourselves but with the help of each other. we have discussed the future because it is coming faster than we think. but i am willin to risk anything and everything. better to live to regret than to regret to live

oh yeah i almost forgot. i love all your guys input, its so different from what i get here. it so awesome. i appreciate it so much

libby

i do agree with jimmeh. I'm 16 and am so much in love, but he's moving abroad in a few days. At this age, it is hard because they don't have a choice about going and if things are going to change after high school, be careful. After saying all that though, I wouldn't change being with him for the time we were. I love him and always will. no matter how far away he is. Just be careful. I hope things go well for you. And don't listen to other people saying that you are too young to love. If you love him, only you will know it

Anything it takes?

OK it's going to take one hell of a lot of patience.

You've got serious life changing times ahead with school. You're both slap bang in the middle of puberty and if you're anything like what I was you're going to be high on life one minute and coming down real hard the next.

If you're both that serious about each other give yourselves space to do you own things. Have the common sense not to demand ANYTHING for one another (I'm not talking about sex). Devote as much time to your friends as you would have before you got serious and when the fights are over (and you WILL argue) don't walk away in a bad mood, make up first.

Good luck, you're going to need it.

thank you guys so much. i have had relationships like this before just this one is so different we already kno that when i go off to college things are gonna change except our feelings and just i dunno i know we are gonna argue cuz thats what i do best. i dont have much friends that havent left but the ones i do my love already know i will never leave for him. we are both a little paranoid at times so we go through and get everything we can figured out and it makes it easier for us when it happens. we are weird like that. and both me and him know no sex till marriage. thanks guys

libby

Just remember that you'll mature (mentally) somewhere over a period of three or five years from 18 - 23 or more.

I'm 28 and still growing up... but then I am a man, I have a legitmate excuse for being stupid.

Though I don't think anyone will ever truly understand love I believe you can find it (for what you can know) at any age. I fell in love with my fiancé at 15. I knew at 15 that it was real, that I was going to spend my life with him. It wasn't all cake and ice cream though. As someone said you will have life changing decisions and obstacles to face and that can get really tough. Through such times you DO need space but it is definitely possible.

wow, thanks so much. this is more input then i thought i would get. i guess i do kno we will need space but at least this time iknow that we can make it through any space,

i cant stand it when ppl say that, Oh your too young to be in love, you dont know what love is! cuz thats soo RIDICULOUS! I think anybody can fall in love at any age, theres all diff. types of love... man i could just go on and on, but thats basically what i think.. you go for it girl! if u really love him, dont let him get away! not everybody gets a chance to love in their life, u should be happy that u do!! ttyl! *KISSES*~Corrie

yeah jimmeh i was mad when i first read yours becuase i have been so happy. but i went back and read it and i guess what you said makes a lot of sense. i dont know what is going to happen in the next few years i know i wanna be with him. and i get where ppl come from when they say it is infatuation. you really gave me something to think about. cuz there has got to be something making me doubt. thanks so much. id want to talk to you more. do you have AIM, or MSN?

I have the same problem...the thing that i'm afraid of most though is that the chemistry between us will die after a while...but i am trying hard to keep that from happening. I think u can fall in love at anyage as well because i think i have fallen in love too! and i am in highschool too. feel free to IM me on AIM. my screen name is bec4use1l0veu and my name is caitlin! ~later

I have a friend that was experiencing "love" and she's only 14 at the time. She soon found out that it wasn't love but sever liking. It's very easy to mistake love with lust and lust with like. We all are humans and humans, sadly, make mistakes.

You can fall in love at any age, but the question is "would you know it?"

when your in love....thats it...it doesnt matter if your 10 when its there its there and who cares what people say they dont know you and i have heard so many high school stories and a lot of them r still married and they're liek 40

Age never matters..
Looks aren't supposed to matter but hey we live in a vain world.
Actions, personality and reaction only matter. Remember that.
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