why dose she care so much

  • Meagan
    19 years ago

    ok i get this friend we went out at a time well i hooked my friend up with his brother and now there goin out and they talk all the time but she gets so pissed when i go over there and she cant go i mean me and my ex are best firends i can go right i mean should i feel bad ? someone please help me out thanx much love meagan

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    hang on let me get this straight....your best mates with ur ex and ur friend goes out with his bro? and she gets pissed off that u spend time at their house when shes not able to!?

    well if thats the case then dont feel bad at all....u where going rnd there before they hooked up and well u hooked em up so she shud b greatful to u not pissed off...shes just jelous that u get to spend time with them and she doesnt...shes prob jelous of how close u are to ur ex as well...the best advice i can think off is to talk to ur friend...tell her that its upsettin u that shes so angry at u for hanging rnd there house. tell her u used to do it before they got together and dont want to feel bad everytime u go rnd cos ur not doin anything wrong...she shud soon realise her behaviour is out of order and come rnd to the idea....
    xxxLoUxxx

  • Synyster
    19 years ago

    He's your friend, she's your friend, she's your guyfriend/ex's brother's girlfriend... do what you've been doing. her dating habits shouldn't impede your friendships. if she doesn't like it, tough!

  • xღxBeckyxღx
    19 years ago

    All of the above! The best thing I can suggest is to talk to your friend about it, she probably doesn't realize that how shes acting is upsetting you. She could also feel insecure about her relationship with this guy. Most girls are insecure about losing their boyfriends I know I am, so yeah, talk to her about it & things should clear up. Good luck xXx

  • Meagan
    19 years ago

    i mean i feel bad for her because i used to date his bro and i didnt get to see him all the time and some times when i go there im like man i should of got here but then i asked her today if she and him would stay upstairs for a lil bit and shes like no i mean wtf i just want to be alone with his bro he dont even like his bro's g/f but i think she likes him a lil idk i mean should i just tell her off cuz im bout to lol well get back to me thanx

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    i dint understand that last post i got confused with all the metion of bros....cud u re-write it and possibly use their names or fake names so its easier to tell them apart!
    thanks
    xxxLoUxxx

  • rachel harris
    19 years ago

    i think you should still go... Cause he's your friend and your able to hang out with him if you want to! its not like your hanging out with her boyfriend, all your doing is your hanging out with your friend. and she might be getting mad because she's jelous of the fact that your going over there and she's not.