15 and 5 months.

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months and we have got a pretty serious relationship. We are both 15 and are really in love with each other. But lately he’s been talking a lot more about sex…and I really want to, I do but I don’t know if being 15 and going out for 5 months is too soon. I need some advice.

I'm in a sexual relationship now with my girlfriend, and the same as you i am 15 and have been going out for 5 months..

it comes down to what you personally feel comfortable with, never and i mean never do something which you think is for his benefit, there are two people in the relationship, so don't feel pressured and simply take it slow.

thanx...but i'm just scared that i might get pregnant...and if i do...my dad will kill both of us.

i think the fact that ur asking...is it too soon may imply that ur not ready but if u are ready then u shud go for it....but only if U are ready....it shud b a natural time between u both so enjoy it just be careful.there isnt a time limit for two ppl to ahve sex....just do it when u are both ready and feel comfortable
take care
xxxLoUxxx

thanx!

take to ur bf about ur worries...u know about contraception dont u? just make sure he wears a condom and u shud be fine...if anything does go wrong just take urself down to ur family planning/gp/ or chemist (think u can get it over counter) and ask for the mornin after pill and ull be fine.
take care xxxLoUxxx

kk...thanx..

yea it does work after 72hrs and the longer u wait the less chance there is of it working....thats y if anything does go wrong u need to sort urself out that day.. hope this is helpin ann3

it is....thanx alot.

Sean has a good head on his shoulders.

If you want advice from a male peer of your own age group you don't have to look any further.

thanx, he does have good advice..

personally, i think that 15 is too young... now it is your choice what u do, and i'm not one to judge if u do... and it sounds like ur pretty aware of the possible consequences, so i guess u need to ask urself, is risking getting pregnant or getting and STD, is it worth it? and another thing to think about, i understand that u guys are in love, but sumtimes it doesnt always work out, and if u do have sex with him, and them for whatever crazy reason you guys end up breaking up {i mean u r only 15, you still got a lot of changing to do} its just gunna hurt that much more, knowing that u gave him ur virginity and ur heart, and it will be reallly hard to get over him... ur virginity is sumthing that u will never be able to get back, its a gift... so u should really think about all of this b4 u acctually do it.. and talk to your bf too.. anyways,i hope stuff works out! *KISSES*~Corrie

Just one more bit of advice from my side of things, if you feel very nervous (I mean more than just butterflies about it) Then that should be a sign to you that you should just say 'stop'

If he's worth your time, he'd wait for you to be fully comfortable with it...and you really do have to be comfortable for it, because it's not going to be painless either way, just less so if you are actually ready and comfortable.

In my mind, sex is a step into comitting yourself to that person (which is a bizzare thing to do at 15 i admit) but, i only felt ready when i thought that i'd be with her for the next month, the next year, a few years, maybe forever sort of thing.

If you must ask you are not ready. And if he loves you so much he will gladly wait. :)

thanx all that advice helps me alot.

Heyo, I got with my boyfriend when I was 15 too, and we had been going out for about the same time when we talked about having sex. We both thought we wanted to, and one day we had the house to ourselves but it freaked us both out a little so we waited. We did have sex, 14 months in to our relationship which is a while, but it WAS worth the wait and i am glad I waited. It is easy to say that you want to have sex, but when you are face to face with the scenario, thats when it kicks in. There is no problem with waiting a little more until you know you ARE ready, then if you guys don't work out, you won't regret losing your virginity to this guy.

i think sex is something that should not be taken lightly. its the combining of more than just two peoples bodies. if you really feel in love with him, then i see nothing against it, but i would say make sure ur in love with him and want to be with him before you make a decision. because once uve done it, he'll always have a part of you that you can never get back.

Mike

i think if you want to then do what you want to do, and if your not ready then just tell your boyfriend hopefully he willunderstand, i personally think you should wait after a year of goig out and if the realationship is still going good... but just make sure you have protection if yall do have sex.. and well thats all the help i can offer you.. bye